The only exception I'd make is a widow. It's much more an aversion to the woman than the child. If she's divorced or never married there's a good chance she's fucked one guy over and will do it again, she might still be involved with the babydaddy(s), etc. Too many clear and obvious warning signs.
Women barely care what your face looks like, and if it's super terrible then you can always get plastic surgery to alleviate the worst of it.
Women care about "does this male look like he can protect me while I'm pregnant, protect the family home, and provide for us all". I got way more female attention with a beard at 220 doing dirty bulking, than I did clean and pretty, and running fit at 160.
Manipulate the reptilian brain, and the social game is e-z.
That’s such a shitty attitude. Fuckin.. guys that obsess about their height. Shut up cunt and go lift weights. If you aren’t even trying then fuck off.
That’s coming from someone that isn’t knocking life out of the park, that has, had bs to deal with and hasn’t come out the other end A+++
But it’s such a cop out to be like “wah wah I wasn’t born the best how can I cope?”
I don’t think there’s something wrong with what you mention, adopting and whatever.. but what the fuck? Purposely setting your sights on a woman that has baggage just because you’re a pussy with low self esteem and doesn’t even try is pathetic.
Even if you’re 5’0 and built like a twig, start lifting and get some balls.
You may as well aim for some crazy bitch with bi polar cause “wah wah I’m not a Greek god”
Wtf
Also.. if you’re not the best looking guy.. there’s heaps of average chicks that’d make a good wife. Would you pass them up because they’re not a super model? What if she was an average chick that casually gyms?
She’d still be sexy. Who cares about the hyper critical judgement of looks and shit.
Agree with pretty much everything, but just to clarify since internet is bad for conveying intentions-
That was intended more as a disarming compliment to keep the receiver from being defensive
I mean just because we are all shredded Calvin Klein models doesnt mean we should brag about it. And between fixing cleft palates in Africa and reading to the elderly, we dont really have the time tbh
If you can’t have kids of your own, and you know a black couple are considering abortion, then adoption is fine.
If you aren’t the best looking guy, maybe the best female you can find is one whos already got a couple kids by some other dude.
Not everyone is a 6.5, 180lb, 5% bodyfat greek god like you dude.
Never happening even if I looked like Shrek.
Not for me, but one of my best friends was raised by a stepdad and hes so grateful to him for stepping in when his biological dad stepped out.
Hes dating a chick who had 2 kids by another guy, hes raising them as his own. Its only betamale shit if its done out of desperation imo.
But the trend is clear, and exceptions are rare
The only exception I'd make is a widow. It's much more an aversion to the woman than the child. If she's divorced or never married there's a good chance she's fucked one guy over and will do it again, she might still be involved with the babydaddy(s), etc. Too many clear and obvious warning signs.
That, or as a young girl she chose a loser and it slowly dawned on her that she could do much better.
Lots of us were that loser. Don’t take it personal if it happens to you, just level up and be the dude the next girl dumps her loser for
That was my strategy anyways. Worked out okay, getting married at the end of this year 🤷🏻♂️
Women barely care what your face looks like, and if it's super terrible then you can always get plastic surgery to alleviate the worst of it.
Women care about "does this male look like he can protect me while I'm pregnant, protect the family home, and provide for us all". I got way more female attention with a beard at 220 doing dirty bulking, than I did clean and pretty, and running fit at 160.
Manipulate the reptilian brain, and the social game is e-z.
That’s such a shitty attitude. Fuckin.. guys that obsess about their height. Shut up cunt and go lift weights. If you aren’t even trying then fuck off.
That’s coming from someone that isn’t knocking life out of the park, that has, had bs to deal with and hasn’t come out the other end A+++
But it’s such a cop out to be like “wah wah I wasn’t born the best how can I cope?”
I don’t think there’s something wrong with what you mention, adopting and whatever.. but what the fuck? Purposely setting your sights on a woman that has baggage just because you’re a pussy with low self esteem and doesn’t even try is pathetic.
Even if you’re 5’0 and built like a twig, start lifting and get some balls.
You may as well aim for some crazy bitch with bi polar cause “wah wah I’m not a Greek god”
Wtf
Also.. if you’re not the best looking guy.. there’s heaps of average chicks that’d make a good wife. Would you pass them up because they’re not a super model? What if she was an average chick that casually gyms?
She’d still be sexy. Who cares about the hyper critical judgement of looks and shit.
Agree with pretty much everything, but just to clarify since internet is bad for conveying intentions-
That was intended more as a disarming compliment to keep the receiver from being defensive
I mean just because we are all shredded Calvin Klein models doesnt mean we should brag about it. And between fixing cleft palates in Africa and reading to the elderly, we dont really have the time tbh