There's loads of research out there that says:
Loads of men turn to porn because of being sexually frustrated...this is even before it becomes an addiction.
Because they have been rejected so many times, or cheated on so many times, or can't get a sexual partner or intimacy isn't the same in marriage.
And there is also enough data that show...exactly after marriage and even more so after a woman has a child in the marriage, intimacy drops very drastically leaving the man frustrated.
Now usage of porn shouldn't be blamed on the sexes.
But what are the causes.
I'd have to say the choice one makes to consume and eventually get addicted to it.
But what exactly leads to these choices, sexual frustration like I had stated earlier.
Now the cause of the sexual frustration can be based on the:
Male not being attractive or confident enough to get a partner.
Women are increasingly having outrageous standards on the type of men they want to sleep with.
And as 1. can be worked on and improved upon by the man's determination, for 2. it's pretty difficult...and there is alot of data as well to prove this.
Point 2 has been fueled by the increasing use of social media- which gives artificial ego boost to women who think that the likes will be constant in reality, the increase of one-night-stands with probably a rich guy who wouldn't marry the woman, but the fact that she slept with him, she thinks she will always get that type of guy, increased use of online dating sites...and the more sinister side of feminism
It's only a wonder as to why the usage of porn in the past decade has jumped 10-fold.
And no body is addressing the issue, rather just dancing around it.
I think that was the point he was making
Do you think you should blame a specific sex for your problems?
They might be a catalyst, but the choice is still in your hands.
I don't think that's cucking out.
Guess in a way, I kept on contradicting myself, but according to how observations and what I have read, the whole comment was just a summary, not very articulate but I feel enough to put the message out there.
There's loads of research out there that says: Loads of men turn to porn because of being sexually frustrated...this is even before it becomes an addiction. Because they have been rejected so many times, or cheated on so many times, or can't get a sexual partner or intimacy isn't the same in marriage.
And there is also enough data that show...exactly after marriage and even more so after a woman has a child in the marriage, intimacy drops very drastically leaving the man frustrated.
Now usage of porn shouldn't be blamed on the sexes. But what are the causes. I'd have to say the choice one makes to consume and eventually get addicted to it.
But what exactly leads to these choices, sexual frustration like I had stated earlier. Now the cause of the sexual frustration can be based on the:
And as 1. can be worked on and improved upon by the man's determination, for 2. it's pretty difficult...and there is alot of data as well to prove this.
Point 2 has been fueled by the increasing use of social media- which gives artificial ego boost to women who think that the likes will be constant in reality, the increase of one-night-stands with probably a rich guy who wouldn't marry the woman, but the fact that she slept with him, she thinks she will always get that type of guy, increased use of online dating sites...and the more sinister side of feminism
It's only a wonder as to why the usage of porn in the past decade has jumped 10-fold. And no body is addressing the issue, rather just dancing around it. I think that was the point he was making
If you're going to cuck out partway through after stating as such before and after this, why bother to cuck out at all?
Do you think you should blame a specific sex for your problems? They might be a catalyst, but the choice is still in your hands. I don't think that's cucking out. Guess in a way, I kept on contradicting myself, but according to how observations and what I have read, the whole comment was just a summary, not very articulate but I feel enough to put the message out there.