I just hope people are aware that men jerked off long before they had access to pornography. That or they used the porn they could get at the time, our neanderthal ancestors drew boobs with charcoal and minerals then would fap away. They would also engage in butt sex, child sex and rape. It didn't mean they had sex addictions, was just humans being humans.
Nobody is forced to go watch porn or get on tinder to go have sex with strangers. They are just being degenerates, I am not gonna sit here and pretend that is not their own fault when it is. They are fully capable of putting their mind and energy elsewhere.
For example as a man sometimes I get an erection, there is nothing wrong with that. Having an erection and being arroused does not mean I need to go full Pee-Wee Herman and stroke one off in the bathroom. What I need is self restraint and rational thought. The erection will go away once I stop the dirty thought or stop the stimulation of my penis.
I bring up pedophila, homosexuality and other sexual deviances because they are the same thing, is not an addiction, they are not victims, they are sexual degenerates who engage in their perversions. I will agree that they lack self control but that is probably due more to their character then anything else and gonna have problems with restraint in far more then just sex.
Ok...you have to realize that sex addicts are often not even in a state of arousal (that's why they are suffering from an addiction: it's a compulsion not an attraction -- they may not be getting any pleasure from it at all; those seeking help with their problem often don't like it at all...I worked in a treatment center for a time: a lot of the addicts there, and quite a few of them had issues with sex addiction on top of other addictions, were not at all happy with their situation).
This isn't about "going Pee Wee Herman"; this is about feeling a compulsion to engage is some form of sexual activity even if you don't really want to have it/know it to be unbeneficial and/or not pleasurable to/for you...aka. an addiction. While it is on them, they do have some trouble with coping with the compulsion -- just like a drug addict or alcoholic. In which case they should be encouraged to seek help, and it shouldn't be swept under the rug (otherwise we get shit like this).
And male erections are not always a sign of sexual arousal -- as a pubescent boy you must have been aware of your pee pee having a mind of its own from time to time.
So they are having sex without an erection and not cumming? Or they just think about sex alot like perverts but can't actually get it?
I don't subscribe to this whole generation of victimhood you people are on, it sounds retarded very similar to people who claim they "suffer from depression" and act like being sad is some sort of mental illness they need treatment for lol
But whatever, let them coom or want to coom I don't care but don't be pulling this movement down with you into such a retarded argument. If you don't like porn, if you don't like violence in movies, if you don't like alcohol, sugar, tobacco, heroin then don't fucking use it! Don't look at the porn, don't think about sex so much. Don't fuck children and rape women. Perhaps pick up a new hobby to replace your degenerate ones (not you personally mam)
Ugh, for the last fucking time: there is a big difference between stating that we, as a society, are encouraging/normalizing certain behaviors (which we are) that in some people can become compulsions/addictions (and then not even recognizing society's hand in this) and playing the victim Olympics. We allow things to be pushed at people, and then wonder why some wind up with problems.
Funny you should bring up depression -- we have that starting to become a compulsion in our society as well. Why? Because we're normalizing and even glamorizing it...."let's talk about your feelings" (all the time, but with no advice given on how to cope with said feelings); "here, take a pill"...
By the way, accusing me of "pulling down this movement with such retarded arguments"....nice touch there sports fan, but I'm not a part of YOUR "movement"...I don't give a damn about it, but thanks for including me...xoxo!
(and it's spelled "ma'am"...it's a contraction; look it up)
I am not gonna argue about it, you are wrong but if you want to go and make up excuses for degenerate behavior and claim sexual deviants, rapists, pedos and homosexuals just cannot help themselves then go right on ahead but not all of us are gonna buy those lies.
I just hope people are aware that men jerked off long before they had access to pornography. That or they used the porn they could get at the time, our neanderthal ancestors drew boobs with charcoal and minerals then would fap away. They would also engage in butt sex, child sex and rape. It didn't mean they had sex addictions, was just humans being humans.
Nobody is forced to go watch porn or get on tinder to go have sex with strangers. They are just being degenerates, I am not gonna sit here and pretend that is not their own fault when it is. They are fully capable of putting their mind and energy elsewhere.
For example as a man sometimes I get an erection, there is nothing wrong with that. Having an erection and being arroused does not mean I need to go full Pee-Wee Herman and stroke one off in the bathroom. What I need is self restraint and rational thought. The erection will go away once I stop the dirty thought or stop the stimulation of my penis.
I bring up pedophila, homosexuality and other sexual deviances because they are the same thing, is not an addiction, they are not victims, they are sexual degenerates who engage in their perversions. I will agree that they lack self control but that is probably due more to their character then anything else and gonna have problems with restraint in far more then just sex.
Ok...you have to realize that sex addicts are often not even in a state of arousal (that's why they are suffering from an addiction: it's a compulsion not an attraction -- they may not be getting any pleasure from it at all; those seeking help with their problem often don't like it at all...I worked in a treatment center for a time: a lot of the addicts there, and quite a few of them had issues with sex addiction on top of other addictions, were not at all happy with their situation).
This isn't about "going Pee Wee Herman"; this is about feeling a compulsion to engage is some form of sexual activity even if you don't really want to have it/know it to be unbeneficial and/or not pleasurable to/for you...aka. an addiction. While it is on them, they do have some trouble with coping with the compulsion -- just like a drug addict or alcoholic. In which case they should be encouraged to seek help, and it shouldn't be swept under the rug (otherwise we get shit like this).
And male erections are not always a sign of sexual arousal -- as a pubescent boy you must have been aware of your pee pee having a mind of its own from time to time.
But you do you...
So they are having sex without an erection and not cumming? Or they just think about sex alot like perverts but can't actually get it?
I don't subscribe to this whole generation of victimhood you people are on, it sounds retarded very similar to people who claim they "suffer from depression" and act like being sad is some sort of mental illness they need treatment for lol
But whatever, let them coom or want to coom I don't care but don't be pulling this movement down with you into such a retarded argument. If you don't like porn, if you don't like violence in movies, if you don't like alcohol, sugar, tobacco, heroin then don't fucking use it! Don't look at the porn, don't think about sex so much. Don't fuck children and rape women. Perhaps pick up a new hobby to replace your degenerate ones (not you personally mam)
Ugh, for the last fucking time: there is a big difference between stating that we, as a society, are encouraging/normalizing certain behaviors (which we are) that in some people can become compulsions/addictions (and then not even recognizing society's hand in this) and playing the victim Olympics. We allow things to be pushed at people, and then wonder why some wind up with problems.
Funny you should bring up depression -- we have that starting to become a compulsion in our society as well. Why? Because we're normalizing and even glamorizing it...."let's talk about your feelings" (all the time, but with no advice given on how to cope with said feelings); "here, take a pill"...
By the way, accusing me of "pulling down this movement with such retarded arguments"....nice touch there sports fan, but I'm not a part of YOUR "movement"...I don't give a damn about it, but thanks for including me...xoxo! (and it's spelled "ma'am"...it's a contraction; look it up)
I am not gonna argue about it, you are wrong but if you want to go and make up excuses for degenerate behavior and claim sexual deviants, rapists, pedos and homosexuals just cannot help themselves then go right on ahead but not all of us are gonna buy those lies.