Projecting YOU onto a screen you decided to call America. Ok. When you decide to do "something besides crying on the internet" then you will. Take more time to recover if you need to. Others having been busy while you heal. This is a marathon. Not a sprint. Bottom line, please don't feel guilty for timing out. Your break doesn't mean you don't want him back just as much as those others do. Tune out judgers. Including yourself. :-).