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GottliebPins 0 points ago +1 / -1

A woman who knows how to cook for her husband sets women back 40 years? That’s when women actually had some value to society. Most women today can’t do anything but take up space. The primary purpose of marriage was for the purpose of starting a family and raising kids. The man provided the income and the woman raised the children and tended the house. Now women want to go of to an office where they are surrounded by other women who back stab and bad mouth each other all day just to come home to a dirty house, with clothes that need washed, and dinner that needs cooked and kids that need tended to. They come home tired and in a foul mood and take out their frustrations on their kids and their husband. So what service is it exactly that they provide to the husband and family if they won’t even make a sandwich? Not much. Thanks to modern appliances men can have a perfectly comfortable life without dealing with all that drama.

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Cozette 0 points ago +1 / -1

My response to "sets women back 40 years" is "I agree with you! Its wonderful!" Working with emotional reactives taught me the importance of framing my response as an agreement rather attack. This short wires them. After a pause for my surprising agreement words to settle in (like word Xanax). I add the judo flip words. Those words don't penetrate enough to trigger an attack reaction because they're still under my initial agreement word spell. But my words did penetrate. A seed got past their mind barriers and was planted. My real words may germinate. They may bear fruit. Who knows? I'm A seed planter getting past their barriers. Not my harvest. Johnny Appleseed. My inspiration.