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BowelSharpton [S] 9 points ago +10 / -1

I truly don't mean to BROADCAST my misery (which is 100% of why I categorically REFUSE to do FAKEbook - I'll live my life, not BROADCAST it) but, WOW, it's been rough going these past few months, totally exacerbated by the fact that I truly am the SOLE conservative now within my huge family; hearing the constant harangues about Virtue Signalling Masks, yada yada; getting soundly beaten down when I insist on calling it the CHINESE PLAGUE.

Dad lost his only sister 10/6 in the MO hometown, then mom's late sister's hubbie in their MO hometown 11/15, then dad 11/24, then dad's remaining sibling my namesake uncle in Tempe AZ 12/12 then I find MY mother deceased 12/17. I'm still trying to process ALL of it - just boom boom boom; dealing with the absolute MADNESS of the estate (mom dying within 3 weeks of dad has made legalities/bureaucratic necessities insanely complex), etc.

Thank GOD for this forum and wonderful people such as yourself with your heartfelt condolences. My Catholic faith - which I formally rejoined upon moving back to the hometown after my Wild Years in The City - has been a bedrock and pleased my cradle-to-grave mother immensely as all other sibs fell away and never came back.

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LonelyLadypedeSF_CA 6 points ago +6 / -0

I have always identified more with the elder family members than the younger, and losing them feels like losing your anchor in life and makes it easy to get off-track. People argue that there is no afterlife because messages from beyond are not concretely identifiable, but I think they are rare because of the sheer amount of energy it takes to bridge that gap between worlds. I think of it like how Jesus had to rest after performing a miracle because it sapped so much human body energy. One relative was so smart and good-hearted, I felt sure that if anyone could jump a message across, he would. At one low point soon after his death, he guided my mind to uncover something that told me definitively that he was there and communicating. God is love and there is no love lost. Know that your parents are still with you and helping you! Blessings to you, Pede! 💖🐸

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RegularAmerican 2 points ago +2 / -0

What a lovely comment. Have a nice weekend, lonelyladypede

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LonelyLadypedeSF_CA 2 points ago +2 / -0

Thank you, and you, too! You know, Regular Americans are the true heroes in our society <3

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RegularAmerican 2 points ago +2 / -0

Haha thanks I made this name because I thought i am not only representing my own opinion but I believe that of a regular, hard working, believes in Jesus, got baptized (twice). I'm no one special. Neither or my opinions. This is me being my regular american self. I guess I'm kinda lucky I got here early enough to grab the usertag. But I know you've been here a long time too. I may be having a fake memory but did you have the same usertag on reddit back when we had The Donald?

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Alexx_Nite 2 points ago +2 / -0

I always call it the Winnie the Pooh Flu to watch leftist co-worker's heads explode.

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GaayPlumbers4Trump 1 point ago +1 / -0

ballsy! dont get fire lol