A lot of people want to point to black men and say “you need to be fathers and stay in the home!” There’s truth to that. But what people never talk about is how shitty the black women are. Over 70% of black children are born out of wedlock, and we all know the govt overwhelmingly awards custody to the women. They’re the ones raising these kids who run around shootin & lootin or laying down and plopping out more kids while in high school and not being married. It’s black women I see getting on the TV (with no man) talking about how her son “dindu nuffin’” or was only robbing people “to pay for college”. I honestly can’t recall the last time I ever had a pleasant customer experience with a black woman. They know their jobs are secure cuz all they have to do is scream “racism!” and they win millions in lawsuits. These black mothers hope their children get shot by cops so they can win the ghetto lottery. And we’ve all seen how ratchet the black mothers of pro athletes are. I remember a story of how one black mother gave her son a bill for raising him on the day of his getting drafted into the NFL. another story of a black mother who slept with her son’s teammates. I could give a hundred examples, but I’m in TLDR territory here.
Long story short, the black community needs to recognize how black women’s egos are going unchecked.
Exactly. It always comes down to the mother. And they perpetuate the cycle, to a point where the Men in the Community dont know better. They push that Black Men "feel emasculated" for being a Father and taking care of their own. That's insanity.
In the White Community, taking care of your children and family is considered "Being a Man". There inlies the huge difference.
I'd argue many black women are like this BECAUSE of the lack of a father to raise them right, teach them to respect themselves, etc. Fix the father problem, and the 'angry black woman' issue will resolve itself IMO. Men need to lead. Men are needed desperately.
It’s kind of a “chicken or the egg” situation. I would say it’s black women who choose not to get married to get them sweet govt benefits who started the whole mess, and the men stupidity went along with it.
Old lady here: grew up in the NYC “projects” in the 1950-60’s. The Welfare system was set up so that if you were a woman with children and did not have a male “head of household” in your apartment, you received more benefits for yourself and your children or grandchildren living with you. The social workers would inspect the beneficiary’s closets looking for mens clothes. The SW’s would also ask neighbors if there was a man at the welfare woman's home. Also, without a “breadwinner” in the home, your rent (which was tied to household income) was reduced and more subsidies were given to you. This gave an incentive to the welfare recipient to get the man of the house. A surefire destruction of a family unit.
Was that an unintended consequence of the welfare system? I used to think that, but now I think it was a planned Marxist undermining of the Christian family structure.
I concur it was a marxist scheme the entire time. What’s sad is that it worked. It should never worked. And what’s confusing is how this worked on black families as such an astounding rate, but not so much for white families.
You have to wonder why a social worker who gets paid either way was so determined for there not to be any fathers around.
No one should have really had such a high interest in that. Why cares if you fill out paperwork and keep dad around. I certainly wouldn't care if someone did that.
A lot of people want to point to black men and say “you need to be fathers and stay in the home!” There’s truth to that. But what people never talk about is how shitty the black women are. Over 70% of black children are born out of wedlock, and we all know the govt overwhelmingly awards custody to the women. They’re the ones raising these kids who run around shootin & lootin or laying down and plopping out more kids while in high school and not being married. It’s black women I see getting on the TV (with no man) talking about how her son “dindu nuffin’” or was only robbing people “to pay for college”. I honestly can’t recall the last time I ever had a pleasant customer experience with a black woman. They know their jobs are secure cuz all they have to do is scream “racism!” and they win millions in lawsuits. These black mothers hope their children get shot by cops so they can win the ghetto lottery. And we’ve all seen how ratchet the black mothers of pro athletes are. I remember a story of how one black mother gave her son a bill for raising him on the day of his getting drafted into the NFL. another story of a black mother who slept with her son’s teammates. I could give a hundred examples, but I’m in TLDR territory here.
Long story short, the black community needs to recognize how black women’s egos are going unchecked.
^^This
Exactly. It always comes down to the mother. And they perpetuate the cycle, to a point where the Men in the Community dont know better. They push that Black Men "feel emasculated" for being a Father and taking care of their own. That's insanity.
In the White Community, taking care of your children and family is considered "Being a Man". There inlies the huge difference.
I'd argue many black women are like this BECAUSE of the lack of a father to raise them right, teach them to respect themselves, etc. Fix the father problem, and the 'angry black woman' issue will resolve itself IMO. Men need to lead. Men are needed desperately.
It’s kind of a “chicken or the egg” situation. I would say it’s black women who choose not to get married to get them sweet govt benefits who started the whole mess, and the men stupidity went along with it.
Old lady here: grew up in the NYC “projects” in the 1950-60’s. The Welfare system was set up so that if you were a woman with children and did not have a male “head of household” in your apartment, you received more benefits for yourself and your children or grandchildren living with you. The social workers would inspect the beneficiary’s closets looking for mens clothes. The SW’s would also ask neighbors if there was a man at the welfare woman's home. Also, without a “breadwinner” in the home, your rent (which was tied to household income) was reduced and more subsidies were given to you. This gave an incentive to the welfare recipient to get the man of the house. A surefire destruction of a family unit.
Was that an unintended consequence of the welfare system? I used to think that, but now I think it was a planned Marxist undermining of the Christian family structure.
I concur it was a marxist scheme the entire time. What’s sad is that it worked. It should never worked. And what’s confusing is how this worked on black families as such an astounding rate, but not so much for white families.
You have to wonder why a social worker who gets paid either way was so determined for there not to be any fathers around.
No one should have really had such a high interest in that. Why cares if you fill out paperwork and keep dad around. I certainly wouldn't care if someone did that.