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FuckGovernment 78 points ago +80 / -2

Almost all the women in churches I go to are already married.

Perhaps a good place to meet women if you are a teenager or very young adult.

It's hard to meet single women in their late 20's or 30's in church. All the good ones get scooped up and married quickly, as you'd expect.

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pray4peace4 41 points ago +44 / -3

I found mine there & she's wonderful, even after 40 years of marriage.

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RyanT282 18 points ago +21 / -3

This isn't 40 years ago; things have drastically changed.

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icockmyglock 8 points ago +12 / -4

I'm not sure what this is supposed to accomplish. You have a better chance of finding a moral woman in a church then almost anywhere else. The fact that the world has change does little to change the benefits of a church for finding a mate because it's still true.

If you don't pair bond in your teens and early 20's your chances of finding an ideal mate diminish significantly. After 40 they nose dose. The best advice you can follow if you want a mate is to ignore the extraneous bullshit in popular culture that works tirelessly to discourage you and get to it. Church based volunteer work is where you should focus your efforts if you want a virtuous Christian woman. When you're not at church work on your job, your education and your health. As much as we would like to believe that women are the homemakers it is the men who are responsible for creating for themselves an image that is attractive to a woman who wants to find a partner to raise kids with. That means good health, good job, good home, good personality. If you have all 4 of those 99% of your work is done. You don't have to be a GQ model, whatever that means these days, but you do have demonstrate you can meet the basic needs of a family minded woman.

This isn't 60 years ago when women still required permission from their husbands to get a job or loans or whatever. They are free to be independent of men and that means men have to work harder than ever before.