Don't worry about anyone other than yourself. There is a lot of tough talk everywhere but when the shit starts to really hit the fan you won't have any friends you can trust or alliances. There is NO PLANNING OR ORGANIZATION unless you have a large group of militant friends to begin with. I dont...my family is soft too. You have to take that as it is...it is what it is. Defend yourself and property and YOUR rights...its all you can do just be prepared. If your waiting for a revolution it may never come. It may come to your home first in the form of hungry people and thieves looking to survive when the bad happens finally. Everyone will be suspect and you should also be wary of just killing anyone without knowing their circumstances. Remain human...and sympathetic...but also be ready to defend. Killing is not what anyone wants...especially the normal people..its the government officials who are our real enemies in the end. Be nice to others...but be strong and aware also.