Very long post. Read 1st line of each # if u don't want to read it all. don't post complaining it's long, nobody is forcing u to read this shit. In my 30 years on this planet, I've heard some stereotypes when it comes to certain races mixing together. I'm not sure how true they are to the rest of the world

1. Blacks and Asians can make really pretty babies. My mom says that it's more likely to happen when the mother is Asian. Tiger Woods is a great example of this. I've seen other kids that had really nice features, and they had White fathers.

2. Attractive Asian girls getting with a (sometimes) not attractive White guy. An Asian woman wants a hard-working and loyal man who is going to work hard for her and the family. A White guy will do that, and the Asian wife will cook him good food and give him pretty babies. Then she will become the awesome Asian mother-in-law who cooks all the time. Mexican men cheat (instead of divorcing because they're Catholic), Black men would cheat, steal or be violent toward them. Asian men are pussies rules by their moms, the rules of society and then their wives. Little stereotypes like that build up and can alter an Asian woman's perception of what a "good enough man" is.

3. Certain Chinese men don't like certain Black men. The "certain" being "slaves". Think about the Chinese who were brought over and forced to work the railroads. The ones who survived and gained their freedom went on to become successful. Through hard work and perseverance, they have a nice house and a big healthy family. Then they hear a Black man, the same age as them, complain about how the White man keeps them down, racism and the system blah blah blah. This Chinese guy is like what system, you mean the ones who made us slaves? Yeah I got away from like that how many decades ago? Weren't you freed as a slave too, wtf you been doing since then? Standing on the street complaining about the White man while taking their handouts? Yeah I thought so.

4. Asians don't like other Asians. This I got from my mom and she said it was about Koreans and Chinese and the issue was in their parenting styles. Both are tiger parents who like to control their children's lives because they believe they and society know better. "Sacrifice the happiness of the one for the progression of society" kind of thing. Drop a sport or hobby by 10th grade if you're not going pro, study for a good job to have a good life and not be a nobody, stuff like that.

So if I use my mom's Chinese friend Kaimen as an example. Here is how she raised her family and it's what my mom hates about her even though she is a good person and very caring friend. Kaimen has a husband, son and a daughter. Her husband has a job, comes home and eats whatever Kaimen makes. He doesn't interfere in her parenting because she isn't abusive or neglectful. Her children both have a tutor they see multiple times a week and both are being made to learn Chinese. Her son plays basketball, and both kids learn instruments. All the instruments, because it will make them well-rounded. I asked my mom when the kids have free-time and she told me they don't. The Chinese reasoning is "you're a child what important things do you have to do that aren't learning and becoming a better adult?" Then once the child is 18, the Chinese parents open the door and say "get out, there's no reason why you should fail and if you do it's not our fault" with the expectation of "once you make it big, and you'd better, you're going to buy us a nice ass house and give back to us what we sacrificed to raise you". Korean reasoning is more like "you can do what you want but only if you also do everything we want you do first" Once their child is 18, they open the door and say "go out into the world and do better than us because that's how we tried to raise you so you'd better not fail". The biggest difference (according to my mom and this was what she saw in Korea 1970s) was that Chinese parents expected their children to be successful, then return the favor. Koreans parents expect to get their independence back with no worries since their kids should be successful. They want their child to buy a nice house for themselves, not for the parents as a show of thanks.

Now my mom will admit that Koreans aren't much better, but she still says they are much better lol. Korean parents will still control their children's lives for mostly the same reason but will curb activities they don't see as necessary. I lived in Korea from ages 2-6 and I remember wanting to do karate and ballet at 5. My mother told me that it was too late for me to start, that something like that was a commitment from birth that I had missed out on because I hadn't figured out that I wanted to pursue that at 2. Learning ballet was something you needed to learn the fundementals alongside learning to walk. Same with karate she said. I know it's bullshit now, but she said what she did because as a Korean she would put more focus on education over entertainment. I was allowed to learn piano though, because the music, rhythm and posture I would learn would benefit me more than karate-chopping a fake piece of wood alongside 25 other 5yr olds or standing alongside girls in tutus while the teacher went "plea, plea, plea" over and over. I get it now. So a Korean will raise their child to prioritize the things that will help them be successful. If we compare my childhood to that of Kaimen's children.....

I took up playing clarinet in 4th grade and continued until 11th grade. Elementary schools didn't offer piano as an instrument so I chose the same instrument that my mom played as a child (music was allowed in her family because it's the only thing her sexist grandfather didn't complain about her doing).I got into the "Vanguard" program in 5th and 6th grade. Not sure exactly what it was, but if you passed the test every Tuesday you went to another school and took different advanced classes. My parents were proud.I was in Girl Scouts because I was an only child who needed more female friends my own age after we left Korea. As I got older it was a good source for community service projects and volunteer opportunities. In high school I was able to say I had spent more than a decade giving back to the community and it went well on my college applications.From 3rd grade to 7th grade my parents forced me to go to Korean school on Saturdays. By forcing me, I mean I wasn't allowed to go to a friend's house on Friday night, had to be in bed by 9pm and ready for Saturday school. Then I had to spend all day Saturday doing Korean school work to try to retain the information. As a child I didn't have a say in this.In middle school, I had no choice when it came to taking Honors classes. Naturally when I went to high school I was told by my parents to choose as many AP classes as possible, then Honors classes, then told to not leave any open slots for my senior year. No you can't be a thespian you chose to be a musician in 4th grade you have to stick to that. I don't care that your best friend is going to be a thespian and you love acting, we can't afford for you to go to college so you have to join JROTC for 4years (why?) then you have to join ROTC in college, then you have to join the military because we're a military family on both sides.No you can't play tennis with your friends because you've loved it since 7th grade but the PE coach told you "save it for high school" and now you're in high school. Oh what's that, you gave up band? Well okay now you can do tennis.I had 2 hours of JROTC practice before school, 2 hours of marching band class, JROTC class, then I had to ride my bike 5 miles home, do my homework and eat, then ride back to school for a night marching band practice, then ride 5 miles home to finish any homework I still had and eat dinner. In 11th grade I started taking classes on Saturdays and during the summer at a local community college. I had over 20 college credits by the time I got my high school diploma but in exchange I got depression, anxiety, lack of self-esteem and self-worth, suicidal tendencies, self-harming as a way to punish myself for failing the expectations of others (my dad would use a belt to punish me for my bad grades. spoiler alert! beating a child doesn't actually make them smarter otherwise Forest Gump's mom took the wrong approach) TL:DR for #4 Chinese parents will control their kids with a collar, chain and blinders on so they think the path ahead is the only path. Korean parents will allow their kids to roam inside their tiny-ass boundaries and claim it's freedom. Both raise their kids to be successful when they turn 18, but Chinese parents expect to be rewarded by their adult kids (new house and car) while Koreans parents want independence (and grand kids). Both are harmful as fuck though and Asians lead the world in suicide rates so it's so not funny how harmful their society is. My mom even compliments how Koreans run prostitution so smoothly that it's why it's so profitable and unstoppable there.

5. Black men need to get with Asian women. The same can probably be said towards Mexican men need to get with Asian women. I was watching a group of 4 Black guys react to anime, and they started talking about how good the food always looks. 2 of them are with Asian women, so they started telling the others about how good their cooking was. I think one of the Asian women had a mother who cooked. They were trying to almost convince the guys they needed an Asian honey. One of them said his Asian wife made BBQ better than his own momma. When I say "Black men" or "Mexican men" I mean the good ones. A strong Asian woman can keep a good man from straying. Most of them take the time to take care of themselves, they have a strong emphasis on family and raising smart children.

I've been thinking more and more on #5 and the final piece was watching a random video of a Black guy who had moved to Japan. The title was something like "why I moved BACK to Japan". I thought "okay so a brother went to Japan, left, then went back. I need to know why". He moved to Japan for work, so he knew the language and was aware of the culture. He said he lost his sense of community when he arrived, which makes sense. Being there though, he wasn't judged for his skin color but more for his work performance and quality. When you go into an Asian place of business, they respect you for attempting the language if you make an honest attempt at it. Now granted, you go to a place like Japan and you're going to see mostly Japanese people, so they don't have any reason to "make it about race" but that's the great part about it. They haven't spent a lot of time being divided on things like race, they still just don't have time for it. I read an article that said something like "BLM shocked that more Japanese people aren't sympathetic towards their plight" and it made me genuinely lol like okay go to Japan and tell the people there that they're racist. I feel like a big reason that the Blacks vs Asians or the anti-Asian narrative is being pushed by the left so hard, is simply because it's actually NOT a problem. I know soooooo many Blacks and Mexicans who LOVE Asian food, anime, the alcohol...I myself love K-pop artist Dean Fujioka like a fat kid loves cake. I even know Black people adopted by Korean parents who love Korean bbq, it's crazy how that even happens. Korean people who are adopted by White couples usually don't like Korean food and it makes me cry to know that.

#6 Not sure this is relevant but it's Asian related. Everyone needs to watch Naruto. I'm going to make a separate post about it, but it gives a lot of topics to talk about. The biggest things they touch on are war and love. Don't want to spoil it for anyone, but the things I learned about loving others and forgiveness that I learned from Naruto, I believe the world would be a better place if everyone knew the story of Naruto