My daughter is 6. Sheās getting to that age where sheāll be wanting to have friends over and go to friends houses. As my parents did, Iāll vet the parents as well. And I will tell the fathers if they touch my kid I will end them. I will proudly go to jail for doing this exact same thing. Wouldnāt change the trauma, but at least I would know that he would never do it again to another. Thatās justice in my eyes.
I'm a father of a young girl and if you told me don't touch my daughter or I'll end you. I'd tell you and your daughter to fuck off for assuming that I'm a pedophile. I think it's a known rule not to touch children inappropriately. I don't need you to threaten me.
Agreed. If you threaten me immediately upon meeting me, that would be the end of our girls' friendship with each other. At least, for hanging out after school. You come across like a crazy person, and I'm not letting my child go to a crazy person's house.
Yep, just like in The Hunt where Mads Mikkelsen plays the lead. I imagine many such events have happened. Killing a pedo is a ticket to the Hall of Fame, but always confirm your target really IS a pedo. You don't want to go to jail cause your kid heard about the Free Candy guy and decided to larp it out with you.
Plus that shit is EXACTLY LIKE GUN CONTROL insofar as you're yelling at and creeping out the good people while having zero effect on the bad ones. No fucking pedophile who tries to rape his kids friends is gonna change his ways and stop raping kids because one dad threatened him. Meanwhile, all the non-rapists you encounter are gonna think you're a fucking moron.
What the fuck is wrong with these ppl? Why are they so defensive about something that is clearly happening. Nothing should be unsaid about this issue, especially with parents. Nothing should be assumed or left as an unspoken rule. We just hit a big vein of retard in this salt mine, lemme tell ya. These are the types of ppl where something like the above situation would happen and then theyād wonder why. I didnāt know going the extra mile for protecting our children was such an unpopular opinion. Thanks for being sane fren.
Okay then, let's flip this around? So you think the person you're meeting is a pedophile. So you threaten to kill them if they harm your kid. And now that you've threatened them you're going to let your kid stay at their house?
You either trust the person, or you don't and if you're threatening them, you don't trust them.
So let me ask you this. Do you think the man in the above post that has gotten many updoots just assumed that his daughter was safe? Do you think he mightāve wished he had done more to ensure his daughter was in good hands? Do you think that he wished he had done more to prevent what happened instead of what really happened? Yāall ppl that are too much into your egos and how I should handle my childās safety is retarded. Fuck your feelings, it aināt about you; itās about the safety of my daughter. WAKE THE FUCK UP.
Let me ask you this: Do you think the molestor in the above situation though the dad would be okay with it?
Do you think the dad telling him not to molest his kid would have made him go "WHEW! Good thing you told me, I totally thought it was okay to molest your 6 year old. Thanks for the warning, man."
Everyone knows that shit is evil except literal retards. The evil people do it anyway.
If you came at me all macho and threaten me as if I'm a pedophile, that's the last time our families are going to interact because you are an absolute douchenozzle.
Alright. Make a death threat to everyone you ever entrust your daughter's safety to and see where it lands you. Let me know how it turns out.
As I said before, it's not strong. It's not respectable. It doesn't make you a man. Nor does it do ANYTHING to protect your daughter. What it does do is make you look like an laughably insecure douche bag.
If you actually threatened me like that I'd giggle in your face. It's not about "my feelings." It's about not acting like an uncivilized moron.
That kind of behavior is what I would expect from an insecure teenage boy or from a middle-eastern refugee, not someone who is part of western civilization.
You know what will protect your kids? Good judgement. If the parents can be trusted, there is no need for threats. If there is a need for threats, don't let your kids stay the night. If that means ypur daughter only sleeps at home and no where else, so be it. It's not complicated.
Exactly, I can't believe how stupid and absolutely egocentric these comments are. Total idiots oblivious to the fact that some people still want to protect their children.
Their ego's and feelings come before children's safety I guess.
I would casually bring up my love of guns and show pictures. Invite them to come shooting, let them know in a friendly way I can use a gun and am not scared to. Seems like a better option.
Tact would definitely be applied and in a calm manner of discussion. But sternly and in all seriousness. Itās not something to be naive about just to save someoneās feelings over your childās safety with something as prevalent and serious as abuse/molestation. I stand by my statement and make no apologies, especially when it comes to my kid.
Completely disagree. Nowadays you can never be too careful and clearly, those that donāt necessarily fit the āprofileā are the most dangerous kind. I make no apologies for it and I stand by my statement. If you, as a parent, canāt handle that type of honesty and understand where I would be coming from, then thatās suspect and a red flag right off the bat. If it was such a āknown ruleā, why the fuck does it happen so much? GTFO.
If you as a father can't see that exposing your daughter to some fucked up testosterone overload paranoid that threatens people on first meeting them is a bad thing, then you need to move out and let her mother raise her.
You assume that Iām gonna have that conversation in front of her, which is your first mistake. Your second mistake is that you assume itās gonna be some arm flailing tirade when a discussion such as this would be more effective as calm yet serious. Your third mistake is that you think I give a fuck what you have to say.
I think so, too. And honestly if you want potential care givers for your kid to get the message, I understand that as well. But there might be a more subtle route to go then directly threatening them and making them feel like they are being falsely labeled a pedo.
Because letās be honest, a pedo is never going to come out and admit they are one, so I understand why you want any potential pedo to know that there will be ramifications if they ever try anything around your kid.
But for the sake of not driving away potential friends for your kid, bring the subject up in a hypothetical way instead of an accusatory way. Bring up something a little less inflammatory about safety in their home. Then you can bring up the point about how one can never be too careful, just look at how many kids have been abused in this day and age. Then you can drop the message by saying something along the lines that if something like that ever happened to my daughter, Iād fucking kill the pervert who did it.
That way, your daughterās friendās parent will get the message, and also most likely be inclined to agree with you. And if they are a closet pedo, they now know not to try anything.
I would approach the discussion calmly but firmly in a serious manner. But there most definitely would be a conversation and I make no apologies for it. I think if you just leave things unsaid or just assumed as an unspoken rule(as someone put it), thatās just dangerously negligent as a parent, especially with daughters. Itās about my daughter, not the ego or sensibilities of a grown adult. And of course a pedo wonāt show his true colors until they do, but that doesnāt mean I just have to keep my mouth shut until I come across one either. And I would expect the other father or mother to do the same with me, I would take no offense bc that just shows how much they care about their child and showing how important it is to earn that trust between parents. End of the day, none of these ppl raise my daughter or care for her and are responsible for her well being. And all these shills are just reassuring me that Iām doing whatās right, not that their input is of importance to me anyhow. Iāve known a lot of kids I grew up with and met in my life that were abused or molested in some way. Some were from family members, some were from strangers. But the common thread between all of them was that there was nobody that actually valued the concern to truly vet the abusers until it was too late. Nobody would speak up out of either kindness or respect or cowardice or just plain negligence. If a parent canāt understand why I would not have a discussion about this with them, then my child doesnāt need to stay there with them. Everyone around here wants to talk about āhead on a swivelā, āstay alert, stay vigilantā. Well, itās of utmost importance in regards to my child. No apologies for what I believe or will do when it comes to the safety of my child. None.
If you told me that, I'd tell you to get the fuck out and never come back. Just assume I'm a pedo?! get the fuck outta here. And if you did have concerns the parents are pedo's why would you send your kid.
Seriously. It's the dumbest fucking thing I've ever heard. Does he say the same to coaches, teachers, and the dozens of other people who interact with his daughter without him being present?
Too fucking bad. I would expect the same from the other father as well. And yes, I will assume you are a pedo until you prove you arenāt. Thatās why we donāt let our kids just run around a store unattended or anything stupid like that. I will not compromise my stance and if you canāt handle that honesty, well then YOU can fuck off. BTFO AND GTFO. Iām not here to coddle your feelings about how I protect my child from sickos that are clearly all around us. Get bent.
Maybe so but at least I would know that I made the effort to be up front and honest and assertive about my childās safety. How is that irrational? Let me ask this, did you updoot the post above? Do you think the man didnāt wish he had done more to prevent what happened to his child before what ultimately happened? If you find what he did as noble but condemn my stance out of consideration for how ppl might āfeelā, then you are the one being irrational.
š Lloyd Christmas enters chat: āSo youāre saying thereās still a chance.ā Iāll raise my daughter how I see fit and always protect her, no matter how anyone, here or irl, dictates otherwise. Your comparison is retarded.
People always talk bad about "helicopter" parents but in a split second your kid can be taken. I never take my eyes off my kids. I find it difficult to trust anyone else watching them. I've thought about sleep overs. I'm hoping it won't even come up.
Children need to learn independence in order to grow up to be functional adults. If you keep them under supervision until they are 18 then they suddenly have unlimited freedom and haven't learned how to deal with it. Moderation is key
Weāre not helicopter parents but we always are aware of whatās going on around us. Situational awareness. I guess ppl are upset bc they think bc I said āI will end themā means that that is how Iād come straight out the gate, which isnāt the case but my resolve is just that. Anybody touches my kid, theyād get hurt, period. Iād expect any parent to do the same, especially the father of a little girl. Whatever, none of these ppl are raising my kid or are responsible for her safety so it really doesnāt matter what they say or how they feel about it to be honest.
My daughter is 6. Sheās getting to that age where sheāll be wanting to have friends over and go to friends houses. As my parents did, Iāll vet the parents as well. And I will tell the fathers if they touch my kid I will end them. I will proudly go to jail for doing this exact same thing. Wouldnāt change the trauma, but at least I would know that he would never do it again to another. Thatās justice in my eyes.
I'm a father of a young girl and if you told me don't touch my daughter or I'll end you. I'd tell you and your daughter to fuck off for assuming that I'm a pedophile. I think it's a known rule not to touch children inappropriately. I don't need you to threaten me.
Agreed. If you threaten me immediately upon meeting me, that would be the end of our girls' friendship with each other. At least, for hanging out after school. You come across like a crazy person, and I'm not letting my child go to a crazy person's house.
children can lie... better stay away from crazy
It's resulted in the deaths of innocent men before, it will again
Yep, just like in The Hunt where Mads Mikkelsen plays the lead. I imagine many such events have happened. Killing a pedo is a ticket to the Hall of Fame, but always confirm your target really IS a pedo. You don't want to go to jail cause your kid heard about the Free Candy guy and decided to larp it out with you.
Plus that shit is EXACTLY LIKE GUN CONTROL insofar as you're yelling at and creeping out the good people while having zero effect on the bad ones. No fucking pedophile who tries to rape his kids friends is gonna change his ways and stop raping kids because one dad threatened him. Meanwhile, all the non-rapists you encounter are gonna think you're a fucking moron.
Who gives a fuck? Not me. Fuck off.
Go read the statistics of how many women are sexually abused before the age of 18 and wake the fuck up. This is EVERYWHERE.
What the fuck is wrong with these ppl? Why are they so defensive about something that is clearly happening. Nothing should be unsaid about this issue, especially with parents. Nothing should be assumed or left as an unspoken rule. We just hit a big vein of retard in this salt mine, lemme tell ya. These are the types of ppl where something like the above situation would happen and then theyād wonder why. I didnāt know going the extra mile for protecting our children was such an unpopular opinion. Thanks for being sane fren.
Okay then, let's flip this around? So you think the person you're meeting is a pedophile. So you threaten to kill them if they harm your kid. And now that you've threatened them you're going to let your kid stay at their house?
You either trust the person, or you don't and if you're threatening them, you don't trust them.
Nothing is wrong with these people; you're a psychopath.
Telling strangers that you're going to murder them upon first meeting them...
Good fucking lord man.
women need reparations... all men bad
You want the real scary statistic? Look up how many women ARE sexually abusive.
There's a pedo female teacher epidemic. And female corrections officers in juvie.
You mean the 1 in 5 thing? That's bullshit.
Ehyep. I'd have about the same reaction. I also wouldn't want my kids hanging around the kids of a super insecure "macho" douchebag.
That behavior isn't strong or respectable.
So let me ask you this. Do you think the man in the above post that has gotten many updoots just assumed that his daughter was safe? Do you think he mightāve wished he had done more to ensure his daughter was in good hands? Do you think that he wished he had done more to prevent what happened instead of what really happened? Yāall ppl that are too much into your egos and how I should handle my childās safety is retarded. Fuck your feelings, it aināt about you; itās about the safety of my daughter. WAKE THE FUCK UP.
Let me ask you this: Do you think the molestor in the above situation though the dad would be okay with it?
Do you think the dad telling him not to molest his kid would have made him go "WHEW! Good thing you told me, I totally thought it was okay to molest your 6 year old. Thanks for the warning, man."
Everyone knows that shit is evil except literal retards. The evil people do it anyway.
If you came at me all macho and threaten me as if I'm a pedophile, that's the last time our families are going to interact because you are an absolute douchenozzle.
Alright. Make a death threat to everyone you ever entrust your daughter's safety to and see where it lands you. Let me know how it turns out.
As I said before, it's not strong. It's not respectable. It doesn't make you a man. Nor does it do ANYTHING to protect your daughter. What it does do is make you look like an laughably insecure douche bag.
If you actually threatened me like that I'd giggle in your face. It's not about "my feelings." It's about not acting like an uncivilized moron.
That kind of behavior is what I would expect from an insecure teenage boy or from a middle-eastern refugee, not someone who is part of western civilization.
You know what will protect your kids? Good judgement. If the parents can be trusted, there is no need for threats. If there is a need for threats, don't let your kids stay the night. If that means ypur daughter only sleeps at home and no where else, so be it. It's not complicated.
Be less black.
Dude youāre cringe as fuck saying uproot and shit. Doubt you even have a kid. You sound like a kid yourself.
Exactly, I can't believe how stupid and absolutely egocentric these comments are. Total idiots oblivious to the fact that some people still want to protect their children.
Their ego's and feelings come before children's safety I guess.
I would casually bring up my love of guns and show pictures. Invite them to come shooting, let them know in a friendly way I can use a gun and am not scared to. Seems like a better option.
Tact would definitely be applied and in a calm manner of discussion. But sternly and in all seriousness. Itās not something to be naive about just to save someoneās feelings over your childās safety with something as prevalent and serious as abuse/molestation. I stand by my statement and make no apologies, especially when it comes to my kid.
Course my friend. I agree with your stance all the way. Thereās a lot of sick fucks out there. Protect your kids.
Completely disagree. Nowadays you can never be too careful and clearly, those that donāt necessarily fit the āprofileā are the most dangerous kind. I make no apologies for it and I stand by my statement. If you, as a parent, canāt handle that type of honesty and understand where I would be coming from, then thatās suspect and a red flag right off the bat. If it was such a āknown ruleā, why the fuck does it happen so much? GTFO.
If you as a father can't see that exposing your daughter to some fucked up testosterone overload paranoid that threatens people on first meeting them is a bad thing, then you need to move out and let her mother raise her.
You assume that Iām gonna have that conversation in front of her, which is your first mistake. Your second mistake is that you assume itās gonna be some arm flailing tirade when a discussion such as this would be more effective as calm yet serious. Your third mistake is that you think I give a fuck what you have to say.
Just hang out with the parents while the kids play.
No sleepovers until you daughter is older and able to defend herself.
This is what my parent would do as well, especially when I was at a young age. This is not unreasonable.
I think so, too. And honestly if you want potential care givers for your kid to get the message, I understand that as well. But there might be a more subtle route to go then directly threatening them and making them feel like they are being falsely labeled a pedo.
Because letās be honest, a pedo is never going to come out and admit they are one, so I understand why you want any potential pedo to know that there will be ramifications if they ever try anything around your kid.
But for the sake of not driving away potential friends for your kid, bring the subject up in a hypothetical way instead of an accusatory way. Bring up something a little less inflammatory about safety in their home. Then you can bring up the point about how one can never be too careful, just look at how many kids have been abused in this day and age. Then you can drop the message by saying something along the lines that if something like that ever happened to my daughter, Iād fucking kill the pervert who did it.
That way, your daughterās friendās parent will get the message, and also most likely be inclined to agree with you. And if they are a closet pedo, they now know not to try anything.
Win win.
I would approach the discussion calmly but firmly in a serious manner. But there most definitely would be a conversation and I make no apologies for it. I think if you just leave things unsaid or just assumed as an unspoken rule(as someone put it), thatās just dangerously negligent as a parent, especially with daughters. Itās about my daughter, not the ego or sensibilities of a grown adult. And of course a pedo wonāt show his true colors until they do, but that doesnāt mean I just have to keep my mouth shut until I come across one either. And I would expect the other father or mother to do the same with me, I would take no offense bc that just shows how much they care about their child and showing how important it is to earn that trust between parents. End of the day, none of these ppl raise my daughter or care for her and are responsible for her well being. And all these shills are just reassuring me that Iām doing whatās right, not that their input is of importance to me anyhow. Iāve known a lot of kids I grew up with and met in my life that were abused or molested in some way. Some were from family members, some were from strangers. But the common thread between all of them was that there was nobody that actually valued the concern to truly vet the abusers until it was too late. Nobody would speak up out of either kindness or respect or cowardice or just plain negligence. If a parent canāt understand why I would not have a discussion about this with them, then my child doesnāt need to stay there with them. Everyone around here wants to talk about āhead on a swivelā, āstay alert, stay vigilantā. Well, itās of utmost importance in regards to my child. No apologies for what I believe or will do when it comes to the safety of my child. None.
If you told me that, I'd tell you to get the fuck out and never come back. Just assume I'm a pedo?! get the fuck outta here. And if you did have concerns the parents are pedo's why would you send your kid.
Seriously. It's the dumbest fucking thing I've ever heard. Does he say the same to coaches, teachers, and the dozens of other people who interact with his daughter without him being present?
Too fucking bad. I would expect the same from the other father as well. And yes, I will assume you are a pedo until you prove you arenāt. Thatās why we donāt let our kids just run around a store unattended or anything stupid like that. I will not compromise my stance and if you canāt handle that honesty, well then YOU can fuck off. BTFO AND GTFO. Iām not here to coddle your feelings about how I protect my child from sickos that are clearly all around us. Get bent.
you are being irrational. A pedophile will lie while looking right into your eye while you say that and still commit the crime.
Maybe so but at least I would know that I made the effort to be up front and honest and assertive about my childās safety. How is that irrational? Let me ask this, did you updoot the post above? Do you think the man didnāt wish he had done more to prevent what happened to his child before what ultimately happened? If you find what he did as noble but condemn my stance out of consideration for how ppl might āfeelā, then you are the one being irrational.
Do you also assume you're going to die of the China Virus?
Cause the odds are about the same.
š Lloyd Christmas enters chat: āSo youāre saying thereās still a chance.ā Iāll raise my daughter how I see fit and always protect her, no matter how anyone, here or irl, dictates otherwise. Your comparison is retarded.
People always talk bad about "helicopter" parents but in a split second your kid can be taken. I never take my eyes off my kids. I find it difficult to trust anyone else watching them. I've thought about sleep overs. I'm hoping it won't even come up.
Children need to learn independence in order to grow up to be functional adults. If you keep them under supervision until they are 18 then they suddenly have unlimited freedom and haven't learned how to deal with it. Moderation is key
Weāre not helicopter parents but we always are aware of whatās going on around us. Situational awareness. I guess ppl are upset bc they think bc I said āI will end themā means that that is how Iād come straight out the gate, which isnāt the case but my resolve is just that. Anybody touches my kid, theyād get hurt, period. Iād expect any parent to do the same, especially the father of a little girl. Whatever, none of these ppl are raising my kid or are responsible for her safety so it really doesnāt matter what they say or how they feel about it to be honest.
Okay. BRB, gonna go fuck your wife.
š thatās a good one.
don't let your kid run around a store yet leave her with a person you assume is pedo... great way to get a proof of pedo/no pedo
GTFO. I didnāt say Iād leave her with someone i assume is a pedo. Frankly, all you retards that are getting so defensive need to wake the fuck up.
lol no you fucking would not say some psychotic shit like that to someone you just met. Stop trying to act tough for internet points.
Exactly.
Or, at least one can hope that he's just trying to look like a badass on the interwebs.
You are all talk. You won't say shit.