... over masks... we had a great day, took our son for a hike, tried to go out to dinner... Monday’s are a bust for restaurants, and two of our favorites are closed on those days.
But we tried an alternate, things were ok, I had my fake mask on, I entered the empty restaurant, approached the host and asked for a table, she happily grabbed menus (physical) rare here... when a grizzly man asked if I would raise my mask above my nose, I said I would not, I did not mention my unmasked child, but asked why?
Blah blah blah, I can be fined, faggot tears, I AM WEARING THE FUCKING MUZZLE, get real, so I told him I would take my money elsewhere... he said go do so.... then my bitch husband cried that I can’t be normal and I ruin everything, it was for 15 seconds, stop being obsessed, then I told him he would look the other way while I got raped for 15 seconds, I’m still the bad guy somehow and ruined it all, I wanna cry so bad right now, but I’m the only one left with guts.... it hurts :(
I am sorry you had to go through this humiliation on your anniversary. I have been married 42 yrs. I am more right wing than hubby so we dont talk much. We dont go out much either. We dont celebrate our anniversary or birthdays either. He just had a minor stroke and sometimes I have to wipe his butt. But we are here for each other, and I can count on that.
You will probably be thinking about this episode for a long time. You have a kid together. You will have to ponder how important this episode was in the overall scheme of things. Maybe he has other qualities that compensate for him not supporting you in something that was important to you, IDK.
For better or worse, in sickness and in health. But this whole covid/lockdown mask crap is causing people to re-evaluate things. Breathing is a pretty fundamental issue. Good luck while you ponder, and personally I probably would be hard put to show him any loving right now when he pissed me off so bad.
I think he needs to apologize to you for ruining your celebration. He owes you flowers at least, and probably some crawling on his knees begging your forgiveness. You have also given him the best years of your life and born his child. You have a lot to ponder.