... over masks... we had a great day, took our son for a hike, tried to go out to dinner... Monday’s are a bust for restaurants, and two of our favorites are closed on those days.
But we tried an alternate, things were ok, I had my fake mask on, I entered the empty restaurant, approached the host and asked for a table, she happily grabbed menus (physical) rare here... when a grizzly man asked if I would raise my mask above my nose, I said I would not, I did not mention my unmasked child, but asked why?
Blah blah blah, I can be fined, faggot tears, I AM WEARING THE FUCKING MUZZLE, get real, so I told him I would take my money elsewhere... he said go do so.... then my bitch husband cried that I can’t be normal and I ruin everything, it was for 15 seconds, stop being obsessed, then I told him he would look the other way while I got raped for 15 seconds, I’m still the bad guy somehow and ruined it all, I wanna cry so bad right now, but I’m the only one left with guts.... it hurts :(
I’m of two minds here. One hand, I get your point. On the other, calling your husband a bitch on a public forum is the height of shitty, and it’s being a bad wife. I don’t know where this notion came from that a wife can act crazy and petty and the husband is supposed to along with it, even if it means he gets locked up or killed. Not saying either would have happened here, but that seems to be the expectation. In a marriage, you should temper each other’s crazy, not demand that it be supported unconditionally.
Put the shoe on the other foot: if your husband did something crazy, and you said “honey, you’re being crazy”, and then he berated you, then took to a public forum to call you a cunt, how’d that be for you?
It would suck, but understand I am living in a world and state that is constantly cutting liberties at its knees. My husband will preach about raising strong kids and making our son tough, yet bitch out every time over confrontation, he’ll jokingly call me Karen, I have only become one over this fake pandemic... it’s logic, he’ll agree with me, argue back with coworkers, but put the mask on and comply for service or have entertainment, I have a line and I drew it, he doesn’t like that I won’t budge, I’m not proud to emasculate him, but I’m lost on how to teach him with impact... the logic is there... the guts are not.
Well said! I too have a husband who will "comply to avoid confrontation". Then he gets mad at me because I am adamant about not wearing masks. We have this debate about vacation. We want to go on a plane, but can't board unless I "comply". Tells me that he really needs a vacation, but we live too far from anywhere to drive comfortably. So do I give in? I want my husband to have a nice vacation, which he deserves, especially since we couldn't go last year (our trip was cancelled due to the scamdemic) but at the same time, I feel like I'm betraying my own principles by giving in. It's such a fucking bullshit situation we're in.