57 I just found out my father (don't even want to call him that) cheated on my mother their whole marriage. posted 9 days ago by GameStonks 9 days ago by GameStonks +58 / -1 I'm fucking livid. I feel betrayed. It's a good thing he moved to Florida because I feel like going over to his house and stomping his shitty guts out. 14 comments share 14 comments share save hide report block hide child comments Comments (14) sorted by: top new old worst You're viewing a single comment thread. View all comments, or full comment thread. ▲ 3 ▼ – Isaiah53 3 points 9 days ago +3 / -0 Pretty sure your mom knew, or at least suspected. Not saying adultery is good, because it isn't. It never will be. But you were never in their marriage. You are the product of that marriage, but they made vows to each other, not you. And your father will always be your father, and your mom your mom. Neither of them are saints, nor are you. At least take the time to ask him what happened. It could be he stuck around all those years for you. Again, it's a shitty situation. But hate only hurts you. permalink save report block reply
Pretty sure your mom knew, or at least suspected.
Not saying adultery is good, because it isn't. It never will be.
But you were never in their marriage. You are the product of that marriage, but they made vows to each other, not you.
And your father will always be your father, and your mom your mom. Neither of them are saints, nor are you.
At least take the time to ask him what happened. It could be he stuck around all those years for you.
Again, it's a shitty situation. But hate only hurts you.