it's a little ironic seeing as how the ass beating generation are the one's who invented the time out. The only objective logical conclusion being that neither method actually "works."
Perhaps the real culprit causing shittier less disciplined people is the lack of two parent households. The phrase "wait til your father gets home" is what should make the difference... not sure it really matters whether he takes his belt off or gives me a stern talking to.
Here here. If you don't have a strong bond in the family, your father being upset or disappointed with you doesn't matter. Once that bond breaks down, nothing matters. Children are vulnerable and need that stability at home.
Make your marriage work, pedes. Do whatever it takes until the kids are grown, for their sake.
it's a little ironic seeing as how the ass beating generation are the one's who invented the time out. The only objective logical conclusion being that neither method actually "works."
Perhaps the real culprit causing shittier less disciplined people is the lack of two parent households. The phrase "wait til your father gets home" is what should make the difference... not sure it really matters whether he takes his belt off or gives me a stern talking to.
Here here. If you don't have a strong bond in the family, your father being upset or disappointed with you doesn't matter. Once that bond breaks down, nothing matters. Children are vulnerable and need that stability at home.
Make your marriage work, pedes. Do whatever it takes until the kids are grown, for their sake.
IMO it's really in the hierarchy of the order of life.
God>Christ>Man>Woman>Child
There's really no other way for it to work out properly.