The fundamental blocker in the right is this: we are independent people. We will gladly offer help to anyone who asks, at a moments notice, but we will wait until far too late to ask for help ourselves. We are each an island of independent action. We are naturally inclined to face all obstacles alone, rather than looking to another and saying "Hey, this is where my beliefs and pursuit of happiness reside. Yours also? Let us join forces BEFORE necessary, and achieve our goals faster and more accurately, rather than alone first."