My aunt passed away last week. Her son was only allowed to see her every two days. Her other two sons weren't allowed to see her at all. One of her sons sat outside a window waiting for her to wave at him, his wife and their two kids for 12 hours the day before she died. Staff refused to even wheel her to the window. She died after crying about not being able to see her sons and her grandchildren. It's one thing to read about. It's a whole other thing to watch your adult male cousins cry because they weren't allowed to see their mom for an entire week before she died.