You cannot reason with unreasonable people, you cannot have a conversation with sociopaths. Their only desire is to engage you in their madness.
If NO - I don’t wanna vaccine, isn’t enough for people, then don’t waste your time. There’s nothing you can say, nothing you can do, to change their mind. There’s never a right or wrong answer, just remember it’s only to engage you in their drama.
A simple simple NO,I don’t want one, should be sufficient. The lack of any further comments, will throw them off guard. They’re expecting you to defend your position! You don’t need to!
That's a really good point. I hadn't thought about the fact that we are programmed to justify our answer.
I did have a couple of women at work hesitantly ask me if I was getting the vaccine. When I told them no, they were so relieved and told me they weren't getting it either. It's like they were committing a crime and were so relieved they had an accomplice.
We need to remind ourselves daily that we are our own sovereign being, and that we are beholden to no one. God made us in his image, and the cabal wants to cover that up. Never give up your sovereignty to anybody, except for the Lord Jesus Christ. We need not give permission to anybody, to enjoy our God-given right to be free, without a mask, without a vaccine, and to be able to breathe the beautiful fresh air that he provides for us daily. We owe no one An apology for decisions regarding our own lives, and should be able to walk tall, with a smile on our face spreading joy and cheer wherever we go. Thank you for being a shining light at your workplace, obviously people see that in you and they look up to you. Keep spreading the good word!
I have a co-worker who is hesitant (the only other one in the group). He straight out said he was going to wait awhile and other co-workers are pressuring him to do it. I just said I haven't done it yet, but haven't said if I planned to or not.
Sociopaths? That's a strong word although the thought has crossed my mind. I was thinking more along the lines of narcissist (in my situation at least).
I was having a phone conversation with my dad the other night and he brought it up numerous times. I'd change the subject and he'd bring it up again later and then bait me into an argument. They think it's a slap in the face to them if you don't get it and calling you selfish when they are controlling.
I made the mistake of making further comments after it was brought up the third time and then I couldn't get a word in as I was being lectured.
Ps yes Sociopath is a strong word, but I have had several in my life. One of my family members that I’ve had a very good relationship for over 50 years, had to be eliminated from my life. It was not easy to do, it hurt me very much, and I still love that person, but it is not in my mental and emotional best interest to have them around. There is a slight difference between narcissism and sociopaths, but not much LOL! The best of luck with your family, and when all else fails, pray to the Lord to change their hearts. That’s what I do when I’m out and about, when I see people now I pray for them. I pray the Lord would open their eyes and show them how blind they’ve been. Just set them free! God bless you and have a great evening!
Yes My daughter.
My response: NO
You cannot reason with unreasonable people, you cannot have a conversation with sociopaths. Their only desire is to engage you in their madness.
If NO - I don’t wanna vaccine, isn’t enough for people, then don’t waste your time. There’s nothing you can say, nothing you can do, to change their mind. There’s never a right or wrong answer, just remember it’s only to engage you in their drama.
A simple simple NO,I don’t want one, should be sufficient. The lack of any further comments, will throw them off guard. They’re expecting you to defend your position! You don’t need to!
That's a really good point. I hadn't thought about the fact that we are programmed to justify our answer.
I did have a couple of women at work hesitantly ask me if I was getting the vaccine. When I told them no, they were so relieved and told me they weren't getting it either. It's like they were committing a crime and were so relieved they had an accomplice.
We need to remind ourselves daily that we are our own sovereign being, and that we are beholden to no one. God made us in his image, and the cabal wants to cover that up. Never give up your sovereignty to anybody, except for the Lord Jesus Christ. We need not give permission to anybody, to enjoy our God-given right to be free, without a mask, without a vaccine, and to be able to breathe the beautiful fresh air that he provides for us daily. We owe no one An apology for decisions regarding our own lives, and should be able to walk tall, with a smile on our face spreading joy and cheer wherever we go. Thank you for being a shining light at your workplace, obviously people see that in you and they look up to you. Keep spreading the good word!
I have a co-worker who is hesitant (the only other one in the group). He straight out said he was going to wait awhile and other co-workers are pressuring him to do it. I just said I haven't done it yet, but haven't said if I planned to or not.
Still need to fight and make arguments heard, someone will hear it and the seed will be planted
Sociopaths? That's a strong word although the thought has crossed my mind. I was thinking more along the lines of narcissist (in my situation at least).
I was having a phone conversation with my dad the other night and he brought it up numerous times. I'd change the subject and he'd bring it up again later and then bait me into an argument. They think it's a slap in the face to them if you don't get it and calling you selfish when they are controlling. I made the mistake of making further comments after it was brought up the third time and then I couldn't get a word in as I was being lectured.
Tell your father this
I did not coerce you into not taking it, don’t coerce me into taking it.
If you’ve taken the vaccine, you are protected, so I don’t need to take one. End of story!
If your family wants to denigrate you, over the phone or in person. Just tell him thanks have a great night, hang up or walk away.
Like I said… There’s never a right or wrong answer. It’s just them wanting to engage you in their madness. The key is, you don’t have to participate.
That’s when all this wine for you. When you start participating.
Ps yes Sociopath is a strong word, but I have had several in my life. One of my family members that I’ve had a very good relationship for over 50 years, had to be eliminated from my life. It was not easy to do, it hurt me very much, and I still love that person, but it is not in my mental and emotional best interest to have them around. There is a slight difference between narcissism and sociopaths, but not much LOL! The best of luck with your family, and when all else fails, pray to the Lord to change their hearts. That’s what I do when I’m out and about, when I see people now I pray for them. I pray the Lord would open their eyes and show them how blind they’ve been. Just set them free! God bless you and have a great evening!