Questions should always be asked and never criticized. You are part of the problem saying that there are some questions that can't be asked or that asking that question somehow makes me a bad person. I hope you are teaching your children to question things, we are in this situation due to kids not questioning the false narrative taught in their schools. They think the United States invented slavery and was the only country to have slavery. They think Africans were the only people enslaved and treated the worse. If they questioned this false narrative, they'd be surprised to find out Irish slaves were treated far worse and enslaved in vastly larger numbers. Or the majority of African slaves went to South America.