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Tx50bmg 3 points ago +3 / -0

No, it sounds like you were "included" because it would keep the peace with your wife, but you're not an equal partner. The fact that the teen is being groomed for takeover and you're doing the lion's share of the work just reinforces that.

Your wife may not see things the way you do, you have to figure out how to get her to "see the light" because I guarantee you it will become a you vs. "the family" situation. As someone who has worked with in-laws in a family business, tread very carefully.

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ThisIsHowItStarts 3 points ago +3 / -0

You’re a man! A 15-year-old should never be above you. MoveOn! Take care of you and your family, and get out of that business if you can. These people don’t respect you, your number 4. I think you answered your own question. But thank you for asking maybe somebody supporting you and walking away is what you needed to hear.

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Judiwont 2 points ago +2 / -0

I am in the family business abd as I also have a sibling my husband who does all the work is treated as a less tha . It won’t ever get better.

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CovfefeNegro 2 points ago +2 / -0

What do you have in writing, on contract? And ...ahem... a 15 year old cannot be Boss ahead of you, I get that you will rank below the Wife but nyet on the kid.

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E-dantes 2 points ago +2 / -0

Never intermingle business/money and family, unless your willing to lose both.

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Lord_Karius [S] 0 points ago +1 / -1

Yeah that was my natural reaction. Funny my father in law said when my wife and I got married he wouldn't get involved.

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E-dantes 2 points ago +2 / -0

It happens. Being that you knew the son was the number two, and that he was being groomed, it is possible for it to work, but the boss (the son) still needs to pull his weight too. If you're okay with the way things are, it can work. But more often than not, it turns into you doing everything and the son believing managing is only telling others what to do.

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Return_Of_The_LAMFF -1 points ago +1 / -2

This is patriots.win not a fucking advice column. No one cares about your retarded situation you dumb ass.

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Lord_Karius [S] 1 point ago +2 / -1

Hmm...you must be new. We're family. You sound like a shill. Nice job outing yourself fag.

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Return_Of_The_LAMFF 0 points ago +1 / -1

Nope, not new I'm as old as it gets . You're not my family. You're a fucking retard who is shitting up the board with your inane personal BS. You want to know how I know you're a moron,? Because of the situation you described yourself in. Who does that? Lol.

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Lord_Karius [S] 1 point ago +1 / -0

You sound drunk, friend...do you need some help? Nobody asked how you know I'm a moron. You asked yourself that. Nobody looks for help in a situation they mean to find themselves in. Your lack of advice indicates your incel inclinations. I hope the best for your future.

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Lord_Karius [S] 0 points ago +1 / -1

And by "shitting" up the board? With one post? Lol. I definitely don't describe you as family. You have your own personal BS that's really sad when you have to project your hatred on to others. Sound like an obese single troll wannabe chad....Sad.

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Return_Of_The_LAMFF 0 points ago +1 / -1

Don't you wish. Now go finish your chores while your wife's family sits on their ass and laughs at you boi.

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Lord_Karius [S] 0 points ago +1 / -1

Isn't it sad you feel the need to downvote our personal conversation.

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Lord_Karius [S] 0 points ago +1 / -1

I didn't say I did their chores, moron. I indicated I left to take care of my own. Nice try

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Lord_Karius [S] 0 points ago +1 / -1

Wanna know how I know you're a fuckboi virgin with 0 life experience? Cause you have nothing useful to add. Congrats. You played yourself fag

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Lord_Karius [S] 0 points ago +1 / -1

1 year old isn't as old as it gets, bitch.

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IM-NO-ANGEL -1 points ago +1 / -2

DO NOT SEEK REAL LIFE ADVISE ON THE INTERNET!!!!

You're an adult. Start "Adulting"

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Lord_Karius [S] 1 point ago +2 / -1

No, I've been civil and left. I'm just asking if people think I'm being out of order.