i think he should take hhis heart faliure seriously. his dad wasnt a coward. his dad is on the band of b rothers series. and i will NOT kevorkian his ass. someone else picked him up. guess who gets to pick him up out of bed plop him in a wheel chair, whee l hi to the fuckin toilet, pick him up pull his pants down helpe him sit. Yeah... and thats not what pissed me off. what pissed me off is the staff at the va should have known enough to keep him there. he only required a 48 hour treatment. and my dad says "shutup fag boy" or something along those lines. bu tt he is really the sweetest man in the world
im extremely fucking pissed right now.
His dad has chronic heart failure, more or less a weak heart, which can cause fluid to build up in the body leading to death. Dad was in the hospital to get the fluid down and adjust treatment. Dad got hospital disorientation, maybe has a little dementia, made worse by no family allowed to calm him, and some how the hospital let him check himself out rather than deal with him. The poster is pissed because it seems treatable if the dad would have stayed, but without treatment dad is going to die.
Been there, kid is upset with the situation so he is not giving clear details.
When people have a trace of autism it's like you're always jumping into the middle of a complex conversation they've been having, and acting like you were there the whole time, and you never really get oriented. Or maybe it's not autism, but yeah, it's annoying.
Please be patient with your dad. I'm sure he is in pain affecting his mental state, and hospital disorientation is a thing combined with not being able to see family which makes it worse. I don't think he is a coward.
I lost my dad to chronic heart failure and fluid build up. Took him to the hospital 3 times before he was admitted and no one diagnosed it until the last time, and by then he had to be ventilated and tho the fluid was coming down, he didn't make it off the vent. He had a few years on your dad tho.
Try and get him treated if you can. If not, just support him. Sounds like a touch of dementia there, being in the hospital makes it worse. Be careful tho, if its on his records the hospital could do more to keep him, but that would include sedation which isn't good and they will start asking about quality of life stuff and want to steer you towards hospice when they see that, so if you can get him back with out that on his record then all the better.
Just try and be patient with him, he isn't a coward, and he needs you.
Is there a different family member or friend that could talk to him right now? Someone that's a little more detached and won't get heated. If so, try agreeing with him enough to let him save face and tell him you'll try a different, better hospital.
I feel so bad for your father who had such a super cuck like yourself for a son. Is there an address we can send your father some get well soon cards? It sounds like he needs some love from people who aren't "fag boys".
i think he should take hhis heart faliure seriously. his dad wasnt a coward. his dad is on the band of b rothers series. and i will NOT kevorkian his ass. someone else picked him up. guess who gets to pick him up out of bed plop him in a wheel chair, whee l hi to the fuckin toilet, pick him up pull his pants down helpe him sit. Yeah... and thats not what pissed me off. what pissed me off is the staff at the va should have known enough to keep him there. he only required a 48 hour treatment. and my dad says "shutup fag boy" or something along those lines. bu tt he is really the sweetest man in the world im extremely fucking pissed right now.
Oh ok, he was only su[posed to be at hospital for 2 days.
He's not actually dying?
Your story is hard to follow.
His dad has chronic heart failure, more or less a weak heart, which can cause fluid to build up in the body leading to death. Dad was in the hospital to get the fluid down and adjust treatment. Dad got hospital disorientation, maybe has a little dementia, made worse by no family allowed to calm him, and some how the hospital let him check himself out rather than deal with him. The poster is pissed because it seems treatable if the dad would have stayed, but without treatment dad is going to die. Been there, kid is upset with the situation so he is not giving clear details.
When people have a trace of autism it's like you're always jumping into the middle of a complex conversation they've been having, and acting like you were there the whole time, and you never really get oriented. Or maybe it's not autism, but yeah, it's annoying.
Please be patient with your dad. I'm sure he is in pain affecting his mental state, and hospital disorientation is a thing combined with not being able to see family which makes it worse. I don't think he is a coward. I lost my dad to chronic heart failure and fluid build up. Took him to the hospital 3 times before he was admitted and no one diagnosed it until the last time, and by then he had to be ventilated and tho the fluid was coming down, he didn't make it off the vent. He had a few years on your dad tho. Try and get him treated if you can. If not, just support him. Sounds like a touch of dementia there, being in the hospital makes it worse. Be careful tho, if its on his records the hospital could do more to keep him, but that would include sedation which isn't good and they will start asking about quality of life stuff and want to steer you towards hospice when they see that, so if you can get him back with out that on his record then all the better. Just try and be patient with him, he isn't a coward, and he needs you.
Is there a different family member or friend that could talk to him right now? Someone that's a little more detached and won't get heated. If so, try agreeing with him enough to let him save face and tell him you'll try a different, better hospital.
I feel so bad for your father who had such a super cuck like yourself for a son. Is there an address we can send your father some get well soon cards? It sounds like he needs some love from people who aren't "fag boys".