just turned 25 on thursday and let me tell you- those girls you have to meet before you graduate high school. i never had the opportunity to make a girl into a housewife. nowadays dating after 25 means learning how to be a step dad unless you go out and try to meet younger college chicks or something. shit isn’t working out for me anymore. all joking aside i missed out so i’m buzzing out
Not true my friend, there are literally tens of millions of women out there, you just have to look harder and be willing to settle in a good way. Get on some christian dating apps, go to some church events, and be UPFRONT about what you want, you may not get the sexy long blonde with the thin waist and fat thirst busters, but in the long run that stuff doesnt matter. Tell them you want kids, tell them your plan for the rest of your life be it work and where you want to live and how you want to live, and if shes ok with it and what she tells you line up, you make it work. Dont waste your time with anything else, move on if anything doesnt line up, once you have kids that is your priority, nothing else matters.
Same. I don't want kids and certainly not someone else's. I cringe every time someone says they're a "full time single mom". Last girl I dated faked being pregnant to get me to stay. Fucking liar! Now I just don't even try. At least I'll have money but not much else.
This is poor advice in my estimation. Men should work on yourself and learn to think about women with your brain instead of your dick. Learn to know when you’re being taken advantage of and don’t let that happen.
Feminists have destroyed nuclear families of the future.
Girls are too brainwashed nowadays. One day she'll just change and want a divorce for some idiotic reason. That's just how girls are. One meal ticket isn't enough.
Find a young college chick ready to settle down with a guy in an established career. They're out there and the difference isn't too bad yet. Even up to 10yr isn't bad.
I think there's a lot of truth to this. In telling women to go be feminists and lean in in the world place, about mid life, a lot of these women realize they'll never have a family and they'll never have a community where they belong. That's why feminists after the age of 50 are so broken.
Hot food doesn't keep very well for four hours. I'm not married, and I still stick to sandwiches when making my own lunch for work because I don't need to heat them up at my lunch break.
What a load of absolute toss!! I am a woman, I have worked full time since I was 17 because I had to. There is no way in the UK I could afford a house, bring up my daughter and live a life on one wage. How has my daughter turned out? Hard working, independent, just got a mortgage, eager for the future and holds herself in check.
I am a production manager of an Engineering firm and I love my job and I love the guys I work with. I get home and I am knackered yes. I would spend more time cleaning etc but I am on here with you pedes or researching the hell out of something.
Don't go down this road - this is divisive. There is bound to be loads of us on here. Conservative women whether they stay at home and raise their families or work will steadfastly hold the line while you lot can take a break and drink your beer.
Lol. 1) Take a joke. 2) All this indicates to me is that the UK sucks and has fallen to feminism. The greatest trick corporations ever pulled was convincing women to double the workers and depress the wages.
The sad thing is that the problem self-perpetuates. As long as almost all women join the workforce, the single-breadwinner household will remain exclusive to the upper middle class. But those that don't work and have husbands who don't make enough will have to live more frugally if they are to break the cycle.
Oh shut up. It doesn't really matter who stays home, and maybe YOU managed to pull it off, but in general kids with two working parents turn out abysmally compared to having a stay at home
As far as income, primary wage earners earn MORE in single income homes vs 2 income, likely because they can 100% focus on work without having to pick up little timmy at 5:30, etc.
Or you can just do without the newest TV, current gen IPhone, etc. Many of us got by playing with sticks, and living 2+ to a room.
Wow!!! Consider me silenced! I absolutely agree it is way more preferable to have mum stay at home. In my case it was not possible. My partner didn't earn enough.
You are wrong when you say my life is one of pure consumerism. My car is 14 years old, my washing machine is 12 years old and still going strong. Everything I own is repaired when it goes wrong, not chucked away. I have only earned better wages in the last 4 years and the extra money is now being saved finally.
I have a family member doing this in the reverse. Wife is a big shot and he is mr mom who is the hockey coach and all around great parent. He made insane money himself but was a miserable person. After deciding that raising his kids was important the change was remarkable.
While I think it's better to have the wife nurture (since she is physically and mentally fine-tuned for it) and the husband provide, I do agree that it's better that at least one of them is raising the kids rather than delegating that duty to some daycare.
just turned 25 on thursday and let me tell you- those girls you have to meet before you graduate high school. i never had the opportunity to make a girl into a housewife. nowadays dating after 25 means learning how to be a step dad unless you go out and try to meet younger college chicks or something. shit isn’t working out for me anymore. all joking aside i missed out so i’m buzzing out
Not true my friend, there are literally tens of millions of women out there, you just have to look harder and be willing to settle in a good way. Get on some christian dating apps, go to some church events, and be UPFRONT about what you want, you may not get the sexy long blonde with the thin waist and fat thirst busters, but in the long run that stuff doesnt matter. Tell them you want kids, tell them your plan for the rest of your life be it work and where you want to live and how you want to live, and if shes ok with it and what she tells you line up, you make it work. Dont waste your time with anything else, move on if anything doesnt line up, once you have kids that is your priority, nothing else matters.
Absolutely fantastic advice, which every man should abide by.
GREAT advice
Same. I don't want kids and certainly not someone else's. I cringe every time someone says they're a "full time single mom". Last girl I dated faked being pregnant to get me to stay. Fucking liar! Now I just don't even try. At least I'll have money but not much else.
Listen get your pede ass out there because if you don’t breed they’ll just import more “people”
This is poor advice in my estimation. Men should work on yourself and learn to think about women with your brain instead of your dick. Learn to know when you’re being taken advantage of and don’t let that happen.
Feminists have destroyed nuclear families of the future.
Girls are too brainwashed nowadays. One day she'll just change and want a divorce for some idiotic reason. That's just how girls are. One meal ticket isn't enough.
Get yourself an older woman. As Ben Franklin said in his advice to a young man “Older women are so grateful”
Do not listen to her. That is TERRIBLE advice.
Aa a pede married to a woman 3 years older, I agree. I wish my wife was younger.
Yup. I feel your pain
Find a young college chick ready to settle down with a guy in an established career. They're out there and the difference isn't too bad yet. Even up to 10yr isn't bad.
I'm a fortunate pede with housewife
I hope all pedes find theirs. I'm living the American Dream
Same here brother, and I hate to see people say its impossible or doesn't exist. You have what you are willing to build.
I think there's a lot of truth to this. In telling women to go be feminists and lean in in the world place, about mid life, a lot of these women realize they'll never have a family and they'll never have a community where they belong. That's why feminists after the age of 50 are so broken.
This is great and true.
Humorous.
I'm both a housewife and an office rat.
I admit to being worn out, but a kid is its own reward.
Lol a side business implies she has another job you know
Raising her family her main job. Side gigs like etsy dont take that much time and you can do it from home.
I guess it depends on how big your shop is..
If they're both cheating on you then its not a good deal.
Lol, "the boss" of a housewife is the husband.
Kinda cringe but I deem it can slide.
For real. Not in America, the matriarch state..
As decreed by God, and for very understandable reasons. A partnership with one leader.
Dont be an idiot. The boss is her husband
Still seems like a terrible deal. Why marry a woman with 5 kids and gray hair?
Lol, if you're the husband, the 5 kids are yours, genius.
Not necessarily.
"Bag lunch"?
She doesn't know how to cook?
Hot food doesn't keep very well for four hours. I'm not married, and I still stick to sandwiches when making my own lunch for work because I don't need to heat them up at my lunch break.
I'd never allow someone else to start making my food for me. Unless at a restuarant.
Thats how you become dependent.
That's how marriage works my dude. You are mutually dependent.
Better lovers, baby. Havent you ever heard that song?
Gross. No thanks.
🤣
Its funny (and sad) because its true.
What a load of absolute toss!! I am a woman, I have worked full time since I was 17 because I had to. There is no way in the UK I could afford a house, bring up my daughter and live a life on one wage. How has my daughter turned out? Hard working, independent, just got a mortgage, eager for the future and holds herself in check.
I am a production manager of an Engineering firm and I love my job and I love the guys I work with. I get home and I am knackered yes. I would spend more time cleaning etc but I am on here with you pedes or researching the hell out of something.
Don't go down this road - this is divisive. There is bound to be loads of us on here. Conservative women whether they stay at home and raise their families or work will steadfastly hold the line while you lot can take a break and drink your beer.
Eaten by cats indeed!!! lol
Lol. 1) Take a joke. 2) All this indicates to me is that the UK sucks and has fallen to feminism. The greatest trick corporations ever pulled was convincing women to double the workers and depress the wages.
Now that I agree on - there was never even the option my mum had, she stayed at home and raised me and my brother.
The sad thing is that the problem self-perpetuates. As long as almost all women join the workforce, the single-breadwinner household will remain exclusive to the upper middle class. But those that don't work and have husbands who don't make enough will have to live more frugally if they are to break the cycle.
Oh shut up. It doesn't really matter who stays home, and maybe YOU managed to pull it off, but in general kids with two working parents turn out abysmally compared to having a stay at home
As far as income, primary wage earners earn MORE in single income homes vs 2 income, likely because they can 100% focus on work without having to pick up little timmy at 5:30, etc.
Or you can just do without the newest TV, current gen IPhone, etc. Many of us got by playing with sticks, and living 2+ to a room.
Wow!!! Consider me silenced! I absolutely agree it is way more preferable to have mum stay at home. In my case it was not possible. My partner didn't earn enough.
You are wrong when you say my life is one of pure consumerism. My car is 14 years old, my washing machine is 12 years old and still going strong. Everything I own is repaired when it goes wrong, not chucked away. I have only earned better wages in the last 4 years and the extra money is now being saved finally.
Don't forget career woman abandons her tiny helpless kids to a kids day prison all day where they get zero love and shitty food.
The career woman could also have one or two kids that she is attempting to raise herself, who will inevitably grow into weak mediocrities.
Drugged with SSRIs because mom can't keep up and claims they're ADD/Autistic, and become school shooters or incels.
I have a family member doing this in the reverse. Wife is a big shot and he is mr mom who is the hockey coach and all around great parent. He made insane money himself but was a miserable person. After deciding that raising his kids was important the change was remarkable.
While I think it's better to have the wife nurture (since she is physically and mentally fine-tuned for it) and the husband provide, I do agree that it's better that at least one of them is raising the kids rather than delegating that duty to some daycare.