Seems to me an alarming number of men of all ages are walking away from women altogether. Which is both sad, and not healthy in the long run. But you can't really blame them, either. Men want to be needed, not wanted. No man who is worth a shit wants any part of being someone's fashion accessory, but that's exactly what feminism tells women to want from men.
All true, but add to that: 50% of marriages end in divorce and 80% of divorces are initiated by the woman. No-fault divorce has been in place long enough that a TON of us have seen our mothers walk away from our fathers after 20 years of marriage. Even if we find a woman who needs us now, will she still need us in 5 years? 10? 20? 30? Marriage means giving someone half your assets, that you are counting on for retirement because pensions aren't a thing anymore, and telling them they can walk off at any time no questions asked.
This all started in the 80s or 90s with that Divorce Revolution or whatever book (I researched this extensively years ago but forgot some of the minor details, book name could even be wrong).
This woman went before Congress with false conclusions drawn from data to say women fared worse after divorce.
The result was massive changes to law and an astronomic jump in child support and alimony. This fucking book even gets cited in Supreme Court decisions.
Then, using the same data years later, other researchers showed her conclusions to be a fraud and that women actually fared the same or slightly better than men after divorce (this is based on the original research BEFORE all the increased child support, etc.) The author actually ADMITTED her conclusions were wrong.
But the damage was done. People still believe this shit.
Seriously though. With my ex I was a 1%er and a top .1%er for my age group based on government data. And forgive this indulgence but I'm pretty good looking and of the same racial group as her (white). She was a wealthy model looking type (6' tall who would routinely be confused for a particular celebrity on vacations, but I wouldn't call her a 10 even when I was dating her).
She seemed convinced that she could walk down the street and find another guy with my credentials in a day. Would call me poor, etc. because my family didn't have as much money as her family and because I personally had less money than her.
Don't think it's working out too well for her now. Childless and unmarried at 36.
Had a woman tell me she wouldn't date anyone under 6 foot that makes less than 100k.
I said that's ok, I don't date women over 110 pounds that can't cook for shit and left. She meant it as a compliment because I hit both. She found out how shallow I thought the whole thing was.
What's this obsession women have with men having to be 6ft? I'm 6'2 and all I see are superficial short bitches complaining about guys that more than likely will be taller than them, but not some stupid Cosmo mag approved height.
Lol. Fuck me, the second date with my ex she got all drunk and started saying "I only date lawyers, bankers, and entrepreneurs." I stayed with that bitch for almost 5 years. I should have followed your example.
Speaking from first hand experience, muscles and abs actually make them self conscious because they know that they look dumpy by your side. They "rationalize" this away by spouting shit like 'I don't want someone who lives in the gym or won't kill a pizza and case of beer with me.'
What does "ethnically compatible" mean to someone "with multi-ethnic children"? She's already paid the toll once and doesn't want to do it again? Sorry, there's no coming back...
The real article title was something along the lines of women’s hamster wheels spin hard when they’ve achieved great wealth and still want their man to be more wealthy than she is.
As a woman I can say why in the Hell would any woman expect a man savior after the way they have demonized men. My advice to young men is look for women that you want to a traditional wife/mother....If they're not willing to serve as a traditional role then run, run, run! You want a nourishing Mother for those first few crucial years. For those beyond child bearing years, look for a traditional wife that will care for you...just sayin...
Statistics are a fun way to ruin someone's day when it comes to personal preferences that are beyond reasonable. Men and women both want a type of person that just doesn't exist in large numbers
Picture is even worse for liberal women. There's a heavy correlation to dating people of similar educational background. College grads overwhelmingly tend to date someone who has at least an undergrad degree. Women outnumber men significantly on college campuses these days, nearly 60:40.
In cities, where liberal women concentrate, there can be 2 or even 3 single 25-40 year old college grad women for each such man. So if you're a woman in these areas you'll likely need to look outside of your educational "caste." But, non-college educated males don't want a liberal woman. They want a mother who will have supper on the table when they get home from busting their ass all day in a factory or job site.
Most college educated males that aren't in liberal arts also don't want a liberal woman. In reality, the ratio of liberal women:men who want them back is probably between 1:7 and 1:10
There are a lot of awkward and impressionable men in colleges that don't think politics matter and that don't know much about women. Tons of these dudes (I know a dozen or more that I went to school with) latch on to the first woman that shows interest in them and stay in bad relationships for way too long.
There are almost no men that want an openly liberal woman, but 90% of "liberal" women are smart enough to be coy about it and to hide it early in the relationship.
That's why I tell all the single young men I work with to avoid hookups, wait to have sex (if you can't wait until marriage at least wait until you've had to time to get to know who the woman actually is on the inside), and always bring and use your own rubbers. Nothing derails a happy life faster than getting spermjacked by a psycho.
I'm 6'1", but I never felt that I was tall until I went to college. Literally from the first day that I set foot on campus (I didn't go to college right out of high school, I was 23 when I began), I had women.... VERY GOOD LOOKING women... wanting to go out with me. I don't consider myself particularly attractive either. I ended up getting engaged to an 18 year old freshman from a very small town and that hadn't been brainwashed by leftist trash, and we've been together for 22 years now, 18 of those years married.
Oddly enough I saw this one, and remember it, I think it was from 2019-2020, iirc.
The headline was about how women who make a lot of money are having a hard time find a man that makes more money than them. So, ya, it's just as retarded as this headline, except that it was real.
Yup.... A woman like that, no one wants to date, cuz they're a self-centered, entitled, cunt with an overly inflated sense of self-worth. That's why they're single. But of course, they can't see themselves to be at fault, so they seek "answers" on who to blame for their circumstances, as if it is some sort of mystery to be solved.
This. I've been married 30+ years, which is fortunate because there would be no viable "dating options" for me otherwise. My wife is a unicorn: very pretty, sane, and compassionate with none of the smugtarded high-maintenance demanding narcissism nonsense (and drug/alcohol issues) one frequently encounters from females these days.
She is irreplaceable, and I wouldn't even try (having had consistently bad results previously with other women, long before the Leftist Agenda turned the Dating Minefield into a "no-go zone.")
Never realize that a) doesnt exist b) the ones who fit all but "want baggage girls" damn sure dont want them. Why would a dude with options pick from the worst options?
The stench of entitlement is incredible in these "dating advice" articles, written by vapid self-obsessed high-mileage poorly-aging feminists who are running out of options having lived a frivolous life of narcissism and promiscuity.
Imagine if the title (and article) were more honest and logical and written to address the plight of male readers instead of pandering to Leftist "wymyn," the screeching freakout from the Tolerant Left would dominate MSM/clickbait headlines for months.
> Men are struggling to find women who are physically-fit, pretty, debt-free, non-narcissistic, well-proportioned, same-race as themselves, and do not have several multi-ethnic children from different fathers.
The Tolerant Left would lose their shit (especially if this post gets screencapped & shown out-of-context on "The View" or MSNBC.) Either one of the "Joys," Reid or Behar, would gleefully have their eyes bugging out screeching over it.
Men are struggling to find women who are physically-fit, pretty, debt-free, non-narcissistic, well-proportioned, same-race as themselves, and do not have several multi-ethnic children from different fathers.
That's a fantastic description of what I'm looking for.......and it's fucking hard to find.
In today's failing society, near-impossible. As far as my "wish list," those are bare minimum requirements: adding the short-list of traits/interests I really want would make the task truly impossible.
Compounding the issue, anyone who did meet those parameters would likely not be interested in me (which is why my wife is such a unicorn, she is the only person I've ever met who does "fit the bill" yet is receptive to my affections.)
Obviously, this is the key to the failure of my previous "relationship" attempts. "Settling" for someone who would be receptive doomed the "relationship," as this most-basic requirement was often the only aspect being met- and the other unfulfilled requrements caused major problems. Even if most of the "boxes are checked," things go much better if one's mate is a sane reasonable level-headed person (the lack of which will be a deal-breaker eventually, unless one is truly a glutton for punishment.)
I'm very fortunate to have been with my wife for so long, or I would either still be fruitlessly trudging a wasteland of self-obsessed Cock Carousel problem-child women who have little to offer and revel in their negative traits... or worse yet, be involved with one of them and heading for disaster again.
Even this is complete bullshit. When I was dating, women found me being more successful than them "intimidating" (their word). Most were turned off by it. And I make close to a million a year (I of course didn't tell them exactly what I made, just that I owned a software consulting company). Judging from all the married couples I know, liberal women WANT to make more than their loser husbands so they can lord it over them and control them.
My ex-wife, despite making 1/4 of what I did, tried to control our finances and the house like her liberal friends and would be furious when I wouldn't let her. No, I make the money. You can't have it or tell me what to do. Deal with it.
Maybe if you actually got some pussy you wouldn't be such an angry, pathetic, loser constantly spewing your impotent rage across a message board that doesn't want you.
Sooooo...the women bringing stretch marks, emotional baggage, and a rainbow of financial drain to the table want men bringing optimal health, wealth, giant cocks, and primo looks to it? If that doesn't prove how grossly delusional women are nowadays, I don't know what else might...I thank God I'm a Gen-Xer!
I tried to buy my niece a doll that looked more like her, but it's kind of difficult since you have a few narrow choices. The multi-ethnic ones are like a nice middle ground average that you can kind of give to anyone. They're either seen as white with a tan, hispanic, or whatever.
Below average women with nothing to offer have convinced themselves they "deserve " a top .05% man.
They were able to get em for a night, that's the same thing as being worth it for a lifetime ain't it?
“Are you on birth control?”
“……………………SURE!”
And its for this reason that more and more young men are walking away from the hookup scene.
Seems to me an alarming number of men of all ages are walking away from women altogether. Which is both sad, and not healthy in the long run. But you can't really blame them, either. Men want to be needed, not wanted. No man who is worth a shit wants any part of being someone's fashion accessory, but that's exactly what feminism tells women to want from men.
All true, but add to that: 50% of marriages end in divorce and 80% of divorces are initiated by the woman. No-fault divorce has been in place long enough that a TON of us have seen our mothers walk away from our fathers after 20 years of marriage. Even if we find a woman who needs us now, will she still need us in 5 years? 10? 20? 30? Marriage means giving someone half your assets, that you are counting on for retirement because pensions aren't a thing anymore, and telling them they can walk off at any time no questions asked.
This all started in the 80s or 90s with that Divorce Revolution or whatever book (I researched this extensively years ago but forgot some of the minor details, book name could even be wrong).
This woman went before Congress with false conclusions drawn from data to say women fared worse after divorce.
The result was massive changes to law and an astronomic jump in child support and alimony. This fucking book even gets cited in Supreme Court decisions.
Then, using the same data years later, other researchers showed her conclusions to be a fraud and that women actually fared the same or slightly better than men after divorce (this is based on the original research BEFORE all the increased child support, etc.) The author actually ADMITTED her conclusions were wrong.
But the damage was done. People still believe this shit.
90% if the women are college educated.
It's good business to divorce a man.
I don't blame them at all. Men have been demonized. If I was a man there is no way in hell I would dive into the toxic environment they've created..
Good. Because it's toxic.
Just like a diamond, bareback is forever.
RIP Kevin Samuels. Need him now more than ever to tell these dumbass chicks what reality is.
Ms Freidberg? 🤔
Dangerzone!
Frishberg.... everytime
Not only do they have nothing to offer, but they’re exceptionally entitled and bring a shit ton of baggage to the table.
Seriously though. With my ex I was a 1%er and a top .1%er for my age group based on government data. And forgive this indulgence but I'm pretty good looking and of the same racial group as her (white). She was a wealthy model looking type (6' tall who would routinely be confused for a particular celebrity on vacations, but I wouldn't call her a 10 even when I was dating her).
She seemed convinced that she could walk down the street and find another guy with my credentials in a day. Would call me poor, etc. because my family didn't have as much money as her family and because I personally had less money than her.
Don't think it's working out too well for her now. Childless and unmarried at 36.
Obese whales saying they won't date a guy that isn't 6' or taller and has a 6 pack.
Had a woman tell me she wouldn't date anyone under 6 foot that makes less than 100k.
I said that's ok, I don't date women over 110 pounds that can't cook for shit and left. She meant it as a compliment because I hit both. She found out how shallow I thought the whole thing was.
What's this obsession women have with men having to be 6ft? I'm 6'2 and all I see are superficial short bitches complaining about guys that more than likely will be taller than them, but not some stupid Cosmo mag approved height.
Chad level 1000
Lol. Fuck me, the second date with my ex she got all drunk and started saying "I only date lawyers, bankers, and entrepreneurs." I stayed with that bitch for almost 5 years. I should have followed your example.
The rule is 6 feet, 6 figures, 6 inch dick. Sadly it sounds like you were only hitting 2/3.
Cock and cash are the modern womans only two selectors.
When they aren't calling men shallow.
Invest in cat food companies and silicone molds.
Joke's on you. I left, she didn't.
She's still there?
Don't know, don't care.
Speaking from first hand experience, muscles and abs actually make them self conscious because they know that they look dumpy by your side. They "rationalize" this away by spouting shit like 'I don't want someone who lives in the gym or won't kill a pizza and case of beer with me.'
the whole 'dad bod' movement they are trying to force.
Like Mike and Sully from monsters Inc.
What does "ethnically compatible" mean to someone "with multi-ethnic children"? She's already paid the toll once and doesn't want to do it again? Sorry, there's no coming back...
The real article title was something along the lines of women’s hamster wheels spin hard when they’ve achieved great wealth and still want their man to be more wealthy than she is.
Written by a *berg
Multi ethnic children? 😂😂😂
You'll never get the smell of coconut butter out of their rotted cunt either.
What a weird coincidence.
Translation: "I'm ready to settle down after riding the carousel and am incapable of feeling anything smaller than a fence-post"
When you're so big you need Tyrone to stretch her out with a few multiracial kids first. I can relate of course.
Would you pay top dollar for a vehicle with 150k miles on it that you can visibly tell hasn't been taken care of?
Maybe it was owned by someone famous. A conversation piece.
And have that conversation for 40 years?
touche.
Even that has limits. I mean, look at Angelina Jolie.
As a woman I can say why in the Hell would any woman expect a man savior after the way they have demonized men. My advice to young men is look for women that you want to a traditional wife/mother....If they're not willing to serve as a traditional role then run, run, run! You want a nourishing Mother for those first few crucial years. For those beyond child bearing years, look for a traditional wife that will care for you...just sayin...
You took the 9 month shit and expect us to want you back? AHAHAHAHA!!!
JTFO!
Statistics are a fun way to ruin someone's day when it comes to personal preferences that are beyond reasonable. Men and women both want a type of person that just doesn't exist in large numbers
Picture is even worse for liberal women. There's a heavy correlation to dating people of similar educational background. College grads overwhelmingly tend to date someone who has at least an undergrad degree. Women outnumber men significantly on college campuses these days, nearly 60:40.
In cities, where liberal women concentrate, there can be 2 or even 3 single 25-40 year old college grad women for each such man. So if you're a woman in these areas you'll likely need to look outside of your educational "caste." But, non-college educated males don't want a liberal woman. They want a mother who will have supper on the table when they get home from busting their ass all day in a factory or job site.
Most college educated males that aren't in liberal arts also don't want a liberal woman. In reality, the ratio of liberal women:men who want them back is probably between 1:7 and 1:10
There are a lot of awkward and impressionable men in colleges that don't think politics matter and that don't know much about women. Tons of these dudes (I know a dozen or more that I went to school with) latch on to the first woman that shows interest in them and stay in bad relationships for way too long.
There are almost no men that want an openly liberal woman, but 90% of "liberal" women are smart enough to be coy about it and to hide it early in the relationship.
That's why I tell all the single young men I work with to avoid hookups, wait to have sex (if you can't wait until marriage at least wait until you've had to time to get to know who the woman actually is on the inside), and always bring and use your own rubbers. Nothing derails a happy life faster than getting spermjacked by a psycho.
Figures, I was a dumbass and went to a school that was 60:40 male to female...
You went to school to learn ?
Nobody goes to school to learn. I went to school to get a high-paying job and it worked.
Better odds for men when it comes to recreational use. Long term.... slowly getting better, but still rare.
Psyco commie lefties are NOT rec use. Men, DO NOT stick your dick into crazy. It is not worth it.
Could get blown off
Rotted off.
I'm 6'1", but I never felt that I was tall until I went to college. Literally from the first day that I set foot on campus (I didn't go to college right out of high school, I was 23 when I began), I had women.... VERY GOOD LOOKING women... wanting to go out with me. I don't consider myself particularly attractive either. I ended up getting engaged to an 18 year old freshman from a very small town and that hadn't been brainwashed by leftist trash, and we've been together for 22 years now, 18 of those years married.
That's not the headline to the original article.
Oddly enough I saw this one, and remember it, I think it was from 2019-2020, iirc.
The headline was about how women who make a lot of money are having a hard time find a man that makes more money than them. So, ya, it's just as retarded as this headline, except that it was real.
So they're making more than most men and are financially independent but they're still complaining about not hooking up with a rich man. Neat.
Yup.... A woman like that, no one wants to date, cuz they're a self-centered, entitled, cunt with an overly inflated sense of self-worth. That's why they're single. But of course, they can't see themselves to be at fault, so they seek "answers" on who to blame for their circumstances, as if it is some sort of mystery to be solved.
so glad I found the woman I did. If this doesn't work, I'll just stay single. fuck the minefield that is dating
This. I've been married 30+ years, which is fortunate because there would be no viable "dating options" for me otherwise. My wife is a unicorn: very pretty, sane, and compassionate with none of the smugtarded high-maintenance demanding narcissism nonsense (and drug/alcohol issues) one frequently encounters from females these days.
She is irreplaceable, and I wouldn't even try (having had consistently bad results previously with other women, long before the Leftist Agenda turned the Dating Minefield into a "no-go zone.")
Hot women are a dime a dozen. As are lard whales. It's the men that can be picky if the dude has an ounce of testosterone and a good work ethic.
I don't want to date women with kids at all, i definitely won't date a woman with mixed race kids.
Too many women are clueless.
They make some good points.
Never realize that a) doesnt exist b) the ones who fit all but "want baggage girls" damn sure dont want them. Why would a dude with options pick from the worst options?
Hence one of the numerous reasons i have up on Western women.
The stench of entitlement is incredible in these "dating advice" articles, written by vapid self-obsessed high-mileage poorly-aging feminists who are running out of options having lived a frivolous life of narcissism and promiscuity.
Imagine if the title (and article) were more honest and logical and written to address the plight of male readers instead of pandering to Leftist "wymyn," the screeching freakout from the Tolerant Left would dominate MSM/clickbait headlines for months.
> Men are struggling to find women who are physically-fit, pretty, debt-free, non-narcissistic, well-proportioned, same-race as themselves, and do not have several multi-ethnic children from different fathers.
The Tolerant Left would lose their shit (especially if this post gets screencapped & shown out-of-context on "The View" or MSNBC.) Either one of the "Joys," Reid or Behar, would gleefully have their eyes bugging out screeching over it.
That's a fantastic description of what I'm looking for.......and it's fucking hard to find.
In today's failing society, near-impossible. As far as my "wish list," those are bare minimum requirements: adding the short-list of traits/interests I really want would make the task truly impossible.
Compounding the issue, anyone who did meet those parameters would likely not be interested in me (which is why my wife is such a unicorn, she is the only person I've ever met who does "fit the bill" yet is receptive to my affections.)
Obviously, this is the key to the failure of my previous "relationship" attempts. "Settling" for someone who would be receptive doomed the "relationship," as this most-basic requirement was often the only aspect being met- and the other unfulfilled requrements caused major problems. Even if most of the "boxes are checked," things go much better if one's mate is a sane reasonable level-headed person (the lack of which will be a deal-breaker eventually, unless one is truly a glutton for punishment.)
I'm very fortunate to have been with my wife for so long, or I would either still be fruitlessly trudging a wasteland of self-obsessed Cock Carousel problem-child women who have little to offer and revel in their negative traits... or worse yet, be involved with one of them and heading for disaster again.
Here is the original article.
https://nypost.com/2019/09/25/women-are-struggling-to-find-men-who-make-as-much-money-as-they-do/
The editor of the title definitely is far more accurate, and the reality of the situation
Even this is complete bullshit. When I was dating, women found me being more successful than them "intimidating" (their word). Most were turned off by it. And I make close to a million a year (I of course didn't tell them exactly what I made, just that I owned a software consulting company). Judging from all the married couples I know, liberal women WANT to make more than their loser husbands so they can lord it over them and control them.
My ex-wife, despite making 1/4 of what I did, tried to control our finances and the house like her liberal friends and would be furious when I wouldn't let her. No, I make the money. You can't have it or tell me what to do. Deal with it.
Women are such hypocrites.
Color me surprised: the stormfag is a lonely fuck.
Lol ok Tel Aviv stalker. What’s it like in the gayest city in the world? How many children have you molested?
I must’ve really deeply hurt you and got into your head for you to comment stalk me for a couple of days now lol
Rent free, bitch! Ha
Quick, hurry up and delete your comment where you said you were a lonely fuck who has never been married and you're miserable!
LMFAO.
The holocaust was fake.
Nice red herring.
Maybe if you actually got some pussy you wouldn't be such an angry, pathetic, loser constantly spewing your impotent rage across a message board that doesn't want you.
Stormfags don't belong here.
Holy shit that’s a long list of bs
The original is not much better: https://nypost.com/2019/09/25/women-are-struggling-to-find-men-who-make-as-much-money-as-they-do/
Sooooo...the women bringing stretch marks, emotional baggage, and a rainbow of financial drain to the table want men bringing optimal health, wealth, giant cocks, and primo looks to it? If that doesn't prove how grossly delusional women are nowadays, I don't know what else might...I thank God I'm a Gen-Xer!
Hahahaha... good luck progs.
Women like money. Youd think op had solved jim Simons theisis problem on non Rehman spaces. Why u mad
So a single woman with a biracial child wants what she sees as a perfect man of the ethnicity she prefers to help her raise her biracial kid?
I saw a beta male today on a plane with a 3 year old daughter who had a muti ethnic baby doll. I mean just thought it was odd.
I tried to buy my niece a doll that looked more like her, but it's kind of difficult since you have a few narrow choices. The multi-ethnic ones are like a nice middle ground average that you can kind of give to anyone. They're either seen as white with a tan, hispanic, or whatever.
What’s this from, it has to be something satirical.
Muh beauty standards.
lol