My original post is here: https://thedonald.win/p/3s4Koqr/venting-about-adult-daughter-wit/

First I want to thank each and every one of you that replied and offered helpful advice. It was very helpful and I'm thankful to you all.

Based on the advice given by datawarrior I decided to try to get involved in her hobby. It's not something I can realistically do but I am showing a greater amount of interest in it asking questions and such even though it's not something I really get in to. It's her thing right now so I'm using it as a bridge to be able to talk to her about stuff other than politics. IT HELPED! Just by me asking a few questions she is suddenly talking to me more, contacting me. She came to Christmas and even brought gifts for her family. She was on the phone with me the night before asking what to get for some people. I spent Christmas day with her and we did not discuss politics at all and she didn't bring it up.

I'm going to spend the weekend with her in a few weeks to help her pack her apartment as she is moving into a house. I'm looking forward to spending that time with her.

I'm also going to do something which I'm honestly vehemently against but I've decided my daughter is more important to me on this issue. I have a Trump bumper sticker. As I was leaving her apartment on Christmas day she walked me out and I saw her glance at the bumper sticker. I know she wanted to say something but she refrained. I've decided to remove the sticker just because I know it's a literal trigger for her. It's an olive branch from me to her.

All that being said, I'm voting for who I want to vote for. Her words when all this started were deciding what kind of relationship she wants to have with us depends on what happens with the election. I'm not going to tell her who I voted for and if she asks I'm going to tell her it is not something I wish to discuss. If she decides she wants to end our parent/daughter relationship at that point then it's truly on her. I've made concessions in order to keep the peace and my door will always be open to her but I won't chase her.

Thank you all and I hope everyone had a very Merry Christmas!