20 years ago my girlfriend went down the same road with my "help". I didn't know what to do and we decided that's what we should do. Her parents and older brother in laws would have killed me if they found out she was pregnant, my parents, I don't know. It haunts me. I have a young child, and I don't really think about it if I can help it. We did what we thought we had to do at the time. She's the only girlfriend that I ever had that I don't speak with anymore and she teaches at my sons school so I see her from time to time. I can't say I would go back in time and change anything either though. It's something you'll have to live with forever for sure.