I think a lot of the dads are to blame, as with most issues. Bad family, bad life usually. Ever watch Stranger Things? The main family is the perfect boomer family. The dad barely talks, just works, randomly says "listen to your mother." The mom is dressing like a whore at the local pool to attract a teenage lifeguard while ignoring her youngest child. I think this caused a lot of this millenial generation (mine) to be idiots. The dads of my friends in hs didnt sit them down and tell them how to be. I think the fear of divorce crippled a lot of mens abilities to be a man, husband, and parent.