No shit - my oldest friend in the world was always a happy, funny gal til she started 'counseling' because of her daughter's 'mental problems' due to the breakup of the marriage and the deadbeat dad abandoning his kid - before she was even a year old. Add to that, the 1st husband was a sailor in the USN and only laid eyes on the baby once.

Now there are 2 more kids (with 2nd husband, also ended in divorce but not til the 2 oldest kids were grown) and one's a m-f tranny. They're all batshit crazy. We don't communicate any more except for Christmas and Birthday greetings.