This is a slightly unpopular opinion, but I still feel convicted to post it.
Pornography is destructive. It is designed to provide an immediate reward and dopamine release, which bypasses the normal efforts that would go into getting this. As a result you train your brain that you can have pleasure from sex without investing and working towards a relationship. This causes a disconnect and is part of the reason why divorce rates are so high, people are used to just getting immediate gratification and not working for it.
Pornography also trains you that truly depraved stuff is normal and natural. It trains you that doing degrading things to yourself and to others is good. These degrading things further split the relationship and cause rifts between you and your partner.
Porn is bad, you should focus on developing a deep trust and relationship with your partner. This leads to more fulfilling sex and a better and stronger bond between you and your partner.
This is just my opinion, I have no science to quote to back me up so take that for what you will. (although there is if you go look for it)
All this anal sex and anal licking....we never even thought of such weird things back in my day.
Honestly I think you kids have picked up strange, unhealthy, and dangerous ideas from pornography being widely accessible and normal.
All we had was Playboy, hell I'd just about pass out from looking at one of those hotties.
This is a slightly unpopular opinion, but I still feel convicted to post it.
Pornography is destructive. It is designed to provide an immediate reward and dopamine release, which bypasses the normal efforts that would go into getting this. As a result you train your brain that you can have pleasure from sex without investing and working towards a relationship. This causes a disconnect and is part of the reason why divorce rates are so high, people are used to just getting immediate gratification and not working for it.
Pornography also trains you that truly depraved stuff is normal and natural. It trains you that doing degrading things to yourself and to others is good. These degrading things further split the relationship and cause rifts between you and your partner.
Porn is bad, you should focus on developing a deep trust and relationship with your partner. This leads to more fulfilling sex and a better and stronger bond between you and your partner.
This is just my opinion, I have no science to quote to back me up so take that for what you will. (although there is if you go look for it)