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posted ago by BlondeBombshell88 ago by BlondeBombshell88 +476 / -0

I am a life-long Republican and he's a Bernie bro. We live in LA so I'm definitely in the minority here. I am SO frustrated with his regurgitated excuses for the Democrats' behavior, and blocking the Coronavirus aid bill just took the cake. We've been dating 6 months and haven't had a single fight, but today I flipped out at him because he just spits out headlines and doesn't actually know what the fuck he's talking about. I literally read the news and listen to podcasts and YouTube ALL day about politics! Most of my friends here are liberal so I read "their side" of the argument all over Facebook. I just can't. CANNOT. Understand their views. Ugh. I love this dude but I told him if he defends their actions yesterday I'm not sure I could see past it. He then changed his tune and told me he'd vote Independent. Lol well better than the alternative....

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IndigoAura 5 points ago +5 / -0

Nah, sounds like the guy is just ignorant of politics and trying to come off as smart to fit in with his college buds by saying he's a bernie bro. Most college kids claim bernie because it's safe, when they just don't know jack shit about politics.

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BlondeBombshell88 [S] 3 points ago +3 / -0

feel like because he grew up without wealth he's just been hammered in this ideology. I come from an upper middle class family and make 3x as much as him (he does not know this, I figured it out myself). So I feel like once he experiences "the good life" his views will change. Especially with a blended income...

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I_Used_to_be_me 2 points ago +2 / -0

I'm not sure wealth is exactly the reason. My fiancee grew up... not poor, but definitely without money. She and her entire family are super conservative, gun-loving and all. The only liberal in the family is her sister, which can be best explained by her going to college to be a teacher. I, on the other hand, am from an upper-middle class family, and even educated w/ graduate degrees, but also super conservative. Most of the wealthier people around here are very liberal, and the more middle and lower class people tend to be conservative (this, of course, is generalizing and not always true. Plenty of wealthy conservatives, poor liberals, etc, too). Income is a factor, but character is more what's going to shape political ideology. Those who can't do anything for themselves, and never have had to, expecting someone else to essentially support them, are those that tend to be more progressive. They thrive on victimhood, and pointing out inequity in everything, and expect the government to be the great equalizer

Despite coming from a fairly well-off family, I made some bad choices in my early twenties, and was homeless for a while. It took some serious "pulling myself up by the bootstraps," to get my shit together, and I credit that experience with waking me up to the toxicity of progressive politics. It would have been far easier to cry "woe is me," and beg for the government to save me, but that's not how life works. I stopped doing drugs, got a job, finished school (then kept going back for more degrees because I'm a sucker for punishment apparently), met my fiancee, and kept building a life for myself. Tough to not be a conservative after that

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Pedeville 2 points ago +2 / -0

People are different and react different to situations lol.