Not to be a Donnie Downer here but you have to be careful with expediting your marrying of someone based off a mere claim of wanting to have kids.
I had an ex-gf that was like that. You know how she ate? Like shit. You know how many extra hours she asked for at work? Zero. Her favorite hobby was watching TV, she was a poor cook and could barely do laundry properly (used to wash everything on HOT even colors, wtf??)
Maybe your GF is different, I pray she is. But don't get all hype based on what she SAYS, look at what she DOES. Does no good to have 5 kids if they're all in child care. And if she's going to stay home, she needs a stay at home career so you can properly house those kids AWAY from a big city, big ass yard, 3500sqft, acre or more, etc. Does her degree work well with online work? If not, she's completely wasting time and money getting it.
Feel free to not share more details, I'm not here to debate 😂 Just saying. Women say dumb shit sometimes because they know what we WANT to hear. Just make sure you're using HER OWN claims against her next time she skips a workout (or five), or insists on getting Taco Bell, or whatever else is obviously detrimental to having 5+ healthy, happy, well-raised kiddos.
Not to be a Donnie Downer here but you have to be careful with expediting your marrying of someone based off a mere claim of wanting to have kids.
I had an ex-gf that was like that. You know how she ate? Like shit. You know how many extra hours she asked for at work? Zero. Her favorite hobby was watching TV, she was a poor cook and could barely do laundry properly (used to wash everything on HOT even colors, wtf??)
Maybe your GF is different, I pray she is. But don't get all hype based on what she SAYS, look at what she DOES. Does no good to have 5 kids if they're all in child care. And if she's going to stay home, she needs a stay at home career so you can properly house those kids AWAY from a big city, big ass yard, 3500sqft, acre or more, etc. Does her degree work well with online work? If not, she's completely wasting time and money getting it.
Feel free to not share more details, I'm not here to debate 😂 Just saying. Women say dumb shit sometimes because they know what we WANT to hear. Just make sure you're using HER OWN claims against her next time she skips a workout (or five), or insists on getting Taco Bell, or whatever else is obviously detrimental to having 5+ healthy, happy, well-raised kiddos.
Solid advice, this man knows what he's talking about.