A friend of mine has a kid with a woman who spent every single dime he saved up when he deployed to Afghanistan. He almost went to prison because he couldn't keep up with the child support shit. Then the mother abandons the child to her own parents and goes to live with a witch coven or some bullshit because she's into wiccan religion. It's honestly crazy, but what stings the most is she's able to abandon her child and there are no repercussions. My friend wanted to be a father, and she wouldn't let him, and he had to pay so much he couldn't afford to live and buy food for himself.