Women used to learn this too. We were tougher overall. I remember when I was a dishwasher in high school the chef and the manager were gropers. They never touched me and one of the waitresses. Everyone else got felt up. Guess who didn't tolerate it? The waitress who was left alone was from Hawaii and extremely tough. She was good at her job and never got fired. The customers would feel up waitresses when their wives were not around with the exception of just a few customers. The waitresses who tolerated it got more tips. The one who didn't kept her self respect.