My whole life, I’ve been a San Francisco/Los Angeles Liberal Arts person with jobs that have shaggy rugs, and you bring your dog into work.
I’m the typical black rimmed liberal glasses person. You’d never expect me to be Conservative unless you saw me at home in my Kanye/Trump shirt.
I’ve always hated kids, and people who had them. But now that I’m redpilled, even going to Church sometimes, I feel like I’m kind of obligated to have one. Like if I don’t I did something bad. Los Angeles would be a crazy place to raise kids but people do it all the time.
Sometimes I think I’m not naturally conservative, but I am because of how crazy liberals are, so therefore it’s ok to not have one.
I do really like conservative values, but at the same time my lifestyle is so different. It’s odd.
Don't have kids because you think you have to, have them because you want to.
You will start wanting to when you realize it is time to let go of your childhood and grow up to become an adult. Taking care of a spouse and child is the beginning of adulthood. I've worked with (and still work with) many 40+ year old men who are looking forward to the next party/drinking opportunity, the next football game, etc. They are just children who never grew up. You won't have as much selfish fun when you have kids, but you will have a huge sense of purpose. It's totally worth it.
I only had two children (it's probably too late for more, but I enjoy trying). I was always worried about being able to support them financially. What I have learned is that there is never enough money, even with baller income. When something is important, you will find a way, and when you can't find a way, it wasn't important. If I could go back I would have 5-6 kids at a minimum.