I say no, because you are assuming being an incel is a bad thing. You've completely accepted the premise that a man's measure is in if he has sex with women, or that if a man can't have sex it's because he's a loser. That's the most basic, pathetic form of shaming tactic used against men when people are too dumb to think of anything else. And now you're extending it to women where it's obviously not applicable. Ugly feminists fuck. Ugly women fuck. You can't equate men and women this way.

You have to use other criteria than just whether someone has sex. It's a shallow metric that doesn't speak to the real issues people are trying to get at. Which could be entitlement, unwillingness to admit fault, or projection of negative feelings onto others.