It pisses me off so much every time I hear of these child abuse cases where "Mom's boyfriend" is the one who hurt or killed a child. It happens over and over again in countless child abuse cases.
Children are 40x more likely to be abused by a mom's boyfriend, after they divorce their intolerable, but much safer husbands. 75% move a new guy in within 10 years.
“It comes down to the fact they don't have a relationship established with these kids,” states Eliana Gil, clinical director for the national abuse-prevention group Childhelp. “Their primary interest is really the adult partner, and they may find themselves more irritated when there's a problem with the children.''
In their article “Child Abuse and Other Risks of Not Living with both Parents," published in Ethology and Sociobiology, Martin Daly and Margo Wilson note: "If their parents find new partners, children are 40 times more likely than those who live with biological parents to be sexually or physically abused." According to a Missouri-based study of children living in homes with unrelated adults, children are “nearly 50 times as likely to die of inflicted injuries as children living with two biological parents.” These are worrying statistics, both disturbing and scary.
This baby was only 5 weeks but had already been attacked 3 times. With three unrelated, jealous guys in the house I don't think it's going to make it to one year old.
Maybe I'm the lunatic here, but from long ago I'd already planned for the possibility of getting involved with a woman who has a kid from a previous relationship, and I'd decided that in that situation, the only viable path for a real Man would be to forge a real bond with the kid, and not just be "Mom's new husband" but to earn and OWN the title of "Dad." Maybe it's because I was that kid from a previous relationship, so I've got some insight into how a family like this should work, but even still.
Then again, with my parents here, it was mom and stepdad, not mom and 4 mutual cucks who can only lash out at that which is helpless.
It pisses me off so much every time I hear of these child abuse cases where "Mom's boyfriend" is the one who hurt or killed a child. It happens over and over again in countless child abuse cases.
Can confirm...only person to ever hurt me as a child was "mom's boyfriend".
I hope he chokes on a sweaty ballsack. That’s the nicest thing I can say about that POS.
lol thanks. He's actually in prison now. And my moms cool these days. We're way past all that. This was over 20 years ago.
I like how your reply to "I hope he chokes on a sweaty ballsack," was "He's actually in prison now."
Basically you just said "He calls that Tuesday now."
I am sorry that you had to go through that. Glad that you are safe now and hope that asshole never gets out of prison.
Thank you. It actually means a lot what you and others are saying. I don't talk about it much IRL.
Children are 40x more likely to be abused by a mom's boyfriend, after they divorce their intolerable, but much safer husbands. 75% move a new guy in within 10 years.
https://www.phillyvoice.com/child-abuse-single-parenting-divorce-marriage-new-partners-advice/
This baby was only 5 weeks but had already been attacked 3 times. With three unrelated, jealous guys in the house I don't think it's going to make it to one year old.
Maybe I'm the lunatic here, but from long ago I'd already planned for the possibility of getting involved with a woman who has a kid from a previous relationship, and I'd decided that in that situation, the only viable path for a real Man would be to forge a real bond with the kid, and not just be "Mom's new husband" but to earn and OWN the title of "Dad." Maybe it's because I was that kid from a previous relationship, so I've got some insight into how a family like this should work, but even still.
Then again, with my parents here, it was mom and stepdad, not mom and 4 mutual cucks who can only lash out at that which is helpless.