My goal is stable families and above all, children. Children, children, children. Maybe I missed it, in that video, but the MGTOW thing doesn't help with that problem, so to me it's a non-event. This may sound airy, but frankly who cares what unmarried infertile people do? Let them have a nice day. That doesn't solve the main problem, children, with present fathers, so I am not devoting brain waves to it. The problem is to rebuild the functioning, happy family that raises nice children.
There was a time when all men banded together and wouldn't take each others' women, well not usually.
The handsome Chads kept their hands off the Beta's wife, just because that was the Bro Code. It was civilized.
Now it's jungle time, and hypergamy is POSSIBLE only because Chad has no scruples about accepting the flirtations of Mrs. Beta. He should not do that.
Mr. Beta cannot compel Chad, he cannot whip Chad. But if Chad still believed in God and the Commandments and Hellfire, he would (well usually) stay with Mrs. Chad and be done with it.
It's a man's world. When men want the old ways back, and don't allow all this anarchy from THEIR end, the women will rant, storm, and do a dance, but when men can say no, the women will have nothing to work with.
Of course a woman who wanted to abandon her husband still could, but if she encounters "no" everywhere else, that might not be so attractive.
Porn keeps the man quiet, nothing keeps the women quiet, the children mumble along with no father, and everybody sulks.
I can't help noticing that a man who has found the right woman, and still hasn't given her a baby after two years, becomes an abandoned man. Men do not have the same physical time limit, and they just don't get it: at age 35, a woman is starting to be reproductive toast.
Really. Nobody tells you that anymore.
A guy who says "I want a trad woman" but also says, "on the other hand, not toooooo trad - I want sex before marrying, and for several YEARS before marrying" is, well, not such a trad guy. Trad for goose is trad for gander, and time does not wait for women.
Everybody wants happiness. Me, I just want to see some children.
Happiness is part of that and that's all it is. That your kids are all right and their other parent is still there. That's happiness.
A woman with SEVERAL children is probably not going anywhere. Unless she is a real nut case, certifiable. Yes, there are a few of those. Even two children is not enough. A woman with at least three is probably not going anywhere.
A woman with no ring and not even one child is not even your relative. Yet. The sex is off the books. The children are becoming imaginary.
When men want trad back, trad will have to come back. But they all have to want it. That means a Group. A tribe, a religion, something. A Bro Code.
Agree, agree. But the state does not have the physical component. Women, unlike men, need a physical touch, a human ear to listen, a human arm that is literally personally and physically present in a room.
My goal is stable families and above all, children. Children, children, children. Maybe I missed it, in that video, but the MGTOW thing doesn't help with that problem, so to me it's a non-event. This may sound airy, but frankly who cares what unmarried infertile people do? Let them have a nice day. That doesn't solve the main problem, children, with present fathers, so I am not devoting brain waves to it. The problem is to rebuild the functioning, happy family that raises nice children.
There was a time when all men banded together and wouldn't take each others' women, well not usually.
The handsome Chads kept their hands off the Beta's wife, just because that was the Bro Code. It was civilized.
Now it's jungle time, and hypergamy is POSSIBLE only because Chad has no scruples about accepting the flirtations of Mrs. Beta. He should not do that.
Mr. Beta cannot compel Chad, he cannot whip Chad. But if Chad still believed in God and the Commandments and Hellfire, he would (well usually) stay with Mrs. Chad and be done with it.
It's a man's world. When men want the old ways back, and don't allow all this anarchy from THEIR end, the women will rant, storm, and do a dance, but when men can say no, the women will have nothing to work with.
Of course a woman who wanted to abandon her husband still could, but if she encounters "no" everywhere else, that might not be so attractive.
Porn keeps the man quiet, nothing keeps the women quiet, the children mumble along with no father, and everybody sulks.
I can't help noticing that a man who has found the right woman, and still hasn't given her a baby after two years, becomes an abandoned man. Men do not have the same physical time limit, and they just don't get it: at age 35, a woman is starting to be reproductive toast.
Really. Nobody tells you that anymore.
A guy who says "I want a trad woman" but also says, "on the other hand, not toooooo trad - I want sex before marrying, and for several YEARS before marrying" is, well, not such a trad guy. Trad for goose is trad for gander, and time does not wait for women.
Everybody wants happiness. Me, I just want to see some children.
Happiness is part of that and that's all it is. That your kids are all right and their other parent is still there. That's happiness.
A woman with SEVERAL children is probably not going anywhere. Unless she is a real nut case, certifiable. Yes, there are a few of those. Even two children is not enough. A woman with at least three is probably not going anywhere.
A woman with no ring and not even one child is not even your relative. Yet. The sex is off the books. The children are becoming imaginary.
When men want trad back, trad will have to come back. But they all have to want it. That means a Group. A tribe, a religion, something. A Bro Code.
Agree, agree. But the state does not have the physical component. Women, unlike men, need a physical touch, a human ear to listen, a human arm that is literally personally and physically present in a room.