Hey guys. Just looking to interact with people. My mother that I own a house with was diagnosed covid positive a couple weeks ago. She got really bad last night and I had to call 911. I wasn’t doing great so I asked her if she could stay the night. I guess that’s me being too over attached. We were supposed to talk after she got off work but she text me and said she’s going disc golfing with friends now and the more she thinks about it we aren’t worth salvaging. Guess she showed her true colors doing that on a day like today.
Sorry just needed to rant to someone.
100% this!!!
I look back at the time I spent with
my worst girlfriendWEW LAD!!! Now I can't decide which one was the worst. My "love" life despite my best efforts has generally been rife with despair. Back then, there was no internet to alert me to the perils of narcissism and hypergamy. Regardless, my experiences with the "fairer sex" were consistently bad enough that I did begin to recognize the patterns. (Sometimes, the Red Pill is a suppository.)
>I finally met someone more humane who has the capacity for empathy, we've been together for 30+ years, married for most of that time.
So back to the time-perception thing. Those aforementioned 30 years seem to have gone by rather quickly, it does not even seem possible that much time has expired. But in the depths of my failed relationships with my worst girlfriends, a matter of 3 months or 3 years felt much longer. Much longer.
>That's what she said
Those 3 years with the runner-up felt like 30 at the time, and we were not even together every day. We were apart a lot (between both of us working, and her having family out of town.) Even so, she reveled in deliberately dealing long-lasting emotional damage and made the most of the time she had (and still seeks me out on occasion decades later attempting to make things worse.)
I can barely get my head around that: how does that 3 years (or less) feel like it went on longer than the 30 years afterward? The only explanation I have is the perception of time that maturity brings, unless unpleasantry just seems to occupy more time than tolerable time.
>tl;dr A narcissistic female with a Hypergamy Hobby can not only wreck your life, but make the whole experience feel like it took much longer to happen than it actually did.