Yeah TBI's are intense, my uncle had about 3 years of severe memory loss, over those three years he slowly got better an better. The brain is truly a strange thing, I really don't understand it because it seems like some can recover almost back to normal an some just have to adjust to a living dealing with it for the rest of their life. I can't imagine having to deal with such an injury and also I cant imagine falling in love with someone an them changing forever because of an accident and its no longer the same person you loved. Having a funeral for them even though they survived to cope is incredible ive never heard of anyone doing that, that's truly sad.