So move to where you can afford to buy a home. If you're that wonderful, you'll have no problem getting a big paying job.
You come across as a whiner. Even if what you say is partly true in some circumstances, you never admit you were an idiot to pay that much for a medical degree. You never admit you refuse to move. It's not your fault in any respect, it's just "life is hard hard hard."
You also sound like you'd accept a bailout, as in loan forgiveness.
That was my thought. I will bet his dad had a lot of struggles getting his business going that he never shared with him. So he thinks his dad quit work one day and was on top of the world the next day. That's not how life works. He doesn't know about his dad's 80 hour weeks or the times he almost went under. Things that happen to all business owners.
If everything he says about himself is true, he will be fine in 5 to 10 years and that is normal for everyone. I didn't feel financially secure until I was about 45. I had a house and cars but it was still paycheck to paycheck. It has just been the last 10 years We've been able to live off of my paycheck and put my wife's in savings.
You can ALWAYS spend more than you make, no matter how much you make. These whining millennials want a huge mansion and new cars right out of college. They refuse to start small while paying off debt and work up.
So move to where you can afford to buy a home. If you're that wonderful, you'll have no problem getting a big paying job.
You come across as a whiner. Even if what you say is partly true in some circumstances, you never admit you were an idiot to pay that much for a medical degree. You never admit you refuse to move. It's not your fault in any respect, it's just "life is hard hard hard."
You also sound like you'd accept a bailout, as in loan forgiveness.
You sound like a lefty.
Also, he’s starting out but expects to be where he’ll be in ten years. Settle down and put in your time. You’re not entitled to start out on top.
That was my thought. I will bet his dad had a lot of struggles getting his business going that he never shared with him. So he thinks his dad quit work one day and was on top of the world the next day. That's not how life works. He doesn't know about his dad's 80 hour weeks or the times he almost went under. Things that happen to all business owners.
If everything he says about himself is true, he will be fine in 5 to 10 years and that is normal for everyone. I didn't feel financially secure until I was about 45. I had a house and cars but it was still paycheck to paycheck. It has just been the last 10 years We've been able to live off of my paycheck and put my wife's in savings.
You can ALWAYS spend more than you make, no matter how much you make. These whining millennials want a huge mansion and new cars right out of college. They refuse to start small while paying off debt and work up.
Sounds like you're making excuses.