It doesn't to me anymore. My girlfriend even used the n-word the other day and surprising thing is that it no longer bothers me. I have no idea when or how this happened. There was a time when I would have been really pissed and maybe wonder whether I could be with a person like that or not. These day, I don't give one single fuck. Well, actually I don't really like it but there are so many more important things to think about. There are many words now (like racism) that mean absolutely nothing to me.