First, I would want to get to know someone as a friend first & figure out their personality/what they want from life. Like if they want kids-that’s a no go (since I don’t) as an example.
Then if compatibility looks good and things begin to get serious does the sexual stuff begin.
So are you saying if you are with a girl and have sex with her and you don't quite enjoy it then you might not want to marry her?
Or am I misinterpreting or misunderstanding you?
First, I would want to get to know someone as a friend first & figure out their personality/what they want from life. Like if they want kids-that’s a no go (since I don’t) as an example.
Then if compatibility looks good and things begin to get serious does the sexual stuff begin.