And to be clear, she was nothing but wonderful to talk to. Started off discussing things and I let her state her thoughts and I showed her the truth with links and she said this was all blowing her mind. We were nothing but kind and respectful and I think that’s the way to go if you want to change minds. Happy red pilling!
YESesss, but you forgot what women are really attracted to:
Confidence without douche- possibly nailed it
Sense of humor, about self is bonus points- I sense this is a lock.
Intelligent- great convo may cover that...
Nice to service staff etc when no benefit to them.
Great smile that happens naturally and reaches:
Purty eyes- this and the smile can take an otherwise 4 or 5 max guy and shoot him straight to irresistably cute for many women; she'll insist to all and sundry you are gorgeous.
Ability to appreciate the little things she does, and say it.
Remember, you don't get to demonstrate that 8-9 ranking if you can't set off her Attracted To You radar... and if you can get some without that, well, not to sound like a bitch, but too easy is not a good sign for building more and exclusive later. JS
Good luck since it sounds like you may have a real connection happening.
Haha I started writing a long list like you did and just stopped short to make it a lil joke. I’ve def come a long way with women since my teens. I used to think their insults were rude and I’d feel bad about myself. Wasn’t til I learned not to give a fuck, and not only let them insult me, but give them even more ammo to work with. It’s almost like a challenge at this point, they wanna see how tough you are, how much shit you can take without turning into a bitch. Fortunately (and unfortunately) I’ve dealt with so much shit over the years, everything just makes me laugh now. And anger is a sign of weakness too. Some chicks dig it, usually the weak and pathetic drug addicts, but real women know better. And they know when you are using your anger to your advantage instead of destructively.
Funny story, the only reason I was on tinder at all was cause my ex from 8 months ago, who I’ve blocked from all contact, phone numbers, emails, social media, well she decided since she couldn’t contact me, she was going to just drop by unannounced. I put her in her place real quick (she cheated and is now currently on cocaine and other drugs and looks like she aged 10 years in 8 months) and sent her packing. But it was still a bummer to see and deal with it out of the blue. I was plenty happy just working on projects and reading and doing my own thing, til she stopped by. Had to make sure I still got it. 😂
Good for you! (Now about that smile and eyes... 😹💁)
I think half the flirting and online connections are just a desperate need to prove to themselves they are not unattractive or bad people after an ugly break up that shook them. Wonder if she's accidently done you a favor this time...
Learning to not care about what others say or think of you is a priceless life lesson- took me almost 50 years to get there, so props to finding your confidence much sooner.
It really is defanging to be open and first in acknowledging or laughing about your supposed weak points or common tropes too.
You're well onto the right path for personal contentment; the right others will find their way to you as you travel without hunting. It's true that once you stop actively looking they appear.
My go-to since I stopped GAF:
As a petite blonde with glasses and long hair to go with some lush bits guys fixate on while ignoring your personality or intelligence, my best showstopper joke is a blonde one-
First you ask if anyone would like to hear your joke? the way a 5 year old does it.
Get their attention focused, posed primly on a seat with knees together and hands clasped in lap, looking around at audience with a big eyed sweet earnestness...
Take a deep breath like you are remembering an important speech, and ask "What's the difference between a blond and a Ferrarri?" using a soft little girl voice in a very teaching something important tone..... Look around expectantly, meet a few eyes while still looking very sweetly earnest....
No one- NO ONE- will have the nerve to respond.
Then break into a big happy smile, and say very loudly and brightly in a naive clueless tone "Not everyone's been IN a Ferrarri!" like you've just shared the secret to having endless chocolate chip cookies.
That I actually do work with little kids is the kicker; the sweet and kid friendly take is a habit that most don't get to see past on the job.
Many other blonde women laugh outloud after the dead silence, and most regular guys are choking to death trying to not make any sound laughing. The rare not blonde woman breaks into a huge admiring smile and looks me straight in the eye while doing so.
PC or "beta" males? Not blonde women? The shocked horror and disbelief and silence as they go rigid then look around at anyone laughing like they are pure scum to laugh AT ME is priceless lolol!
Then I drop the pose and voice, a mocking amused smile and eyes accompany a husky laugh, and I dryly say "So, do I win? Oh calm down, it's funny because it's mostly TRUE!"
Good way to swiftly weed out people I am newly around who are not worth the effort, and it can quickly determine which guys will be a friend who respects ME for me or a danger to avoid too. I'm a Gemini, I multitask with lots of words involved. 😉
Well I mean, none of them can be objectively measured. Even my zero lol. I honestly just made that chart based on my successes with a) just being there and being seen. 4-5 with a bad haircut 6-7 if I’m lookin fly. I had a chick in a car pull up to my truck and blow me a kiss with her boyfriend sitting in the passenger seat. He did not look happy. I blew a kiss back. But I’m not very photogenic so I look like a retarded kid in my tinder photos. Plus I never really let people take pictures of me anyways so I don’t have much to work with.
My highest scores were bedroom skills and convo and just last weekend my ex from 8 months ago who I’ve blocked just decided to stop by the house unannounced, while she had a boyfriend.... so she was super attracted to one of those two things. Lol also this is like the 4th time an ex has done something similar. So I figure I’m doing something right ¯_(ツ)_/¯ I do know my best success with women is getting them one on one and talking, even if it takes a bit longer, I can seduce most chicks with just my charming and witty conversation and stories. Doesn’t hurt I’m a good listener too and remember things so I can use what they say later in a convo as a joke or point out if they said something hypocritical. (This girl was for abortions but when I suggested adoption she said “what mother could give their child away?” And I was like “same question, but murder it with a vacuum”) she knew right away I put her into a position to think.
Anyways long and short of it is I know you were just making a joke lol but I did put some thought into my ratings. I’m no perfect 10 for sure, but I make up in other areas I lack. Like I work out a lot, but my muscles stay the same size. Once they find out I can lift them up against the wall and hold them without getting tired, that’s all it takes to bump my average up a few notches.
Thank you, I love your username as well. It's a good redpill.
If you're interested, I invented my username as a reference to Cesare Beccaria. He argued against gun control, and his writings were quoted by Thomas Jefferson and John Adams in the context of the Second Amendment.
I figured. I was just fuckin with ya. I actually edited that last bit in cause I thought it’d be funny cause why not. I’m feeling full of myself today.
Wear a Jimmie hat pede. Can't procreate with these people. Your kid will be born with Purple hair and a trendy drug habit.
Haha she was very open minded. She knew all these companies were Chinese owned and she honestly was on the right track, just watching the wrong news.
Ok, then. You know I worry about ya. And creating future pedes.
Much love brotha! I’m always careful. If I wasn’t, I’d be a liberal. 😜
Also, GO EAGLES!!!
kek
Yeah cause earlier I told her I was going to manipulate her into liking trump and she was joking that since I got my goal, it was over lol
Keep an eye out for antifa mobs if you meet up with her
ITS A TRAP!!!!
-admiral ackbar of antifa
Rule No 1: Don't stick yr dick in crazy.
Fantastic job, pede. Simply mesmerizing!
This post is useless without pics of the chicks!
And to be clear, she was nothing but wonderful to talk to. Started off discussing things and I let her state her thoughts and I showed her the truth with links and she said this was all blowing her mind. We were nothing but kind and respectful and I think that’s the way to go if you want to change minds. Happy red pilling!
This got me thinking. How many women are waiting for a knight to rescue them from leftism?
Yeah she watches the wrong news. But she's probably surrounded by leftie girlfriends and might feel intimidated to go along.
Women are herd animals.
Just thoughts.
Myself?
Looks: maybe like a 6-7 at best Bedroom skills: 8-9 Ability to hold a conversation: 10 Patience for bullshit: 0
So like a solid 7 on a good day I’d say.
Why, are you interested? 😘
YESesss, but you forgot what women are really attracted to:
Confidence without douche- possibly nailed it
Sense of humor, about self is bonus points- I sense this is a lock.
Intelligent- great convo may cover that...
Nice to service staff etc when no benefit to them.
Great smile that happens naturally and reaches:
Purty eyes- this and the smile can take an otherwise 4 or 5 max guy and shoot him straight to irresistably cute for many women; she'll insist to all and sundry you are gorgeous.
Ability to appreciate the little things she does, and say it.
Remember, you don't get to demonstrate that 8-9 ranking if you can't set off her Attracted To You radar... and if you can get some without that, well, not to sound like a bitch, but too easy is not a good sign for building more and exclusive later. JS
Good luck since it sounds like you may have a real connection happening.
Haha I started writing a long list like you did and just stopped short to make it a lil joke. I’ve def come a long way with women since my teens. I used to think their insults were rude and I’d feel bad about myself. Wasn’t til I learned not to give a fuck, and not only let them insult me, but give them even more ammo to work with. It’s almost like a challenge at this point, they wanna see how tough you are, how much shit you can take without turning into a bitch. Fortunately (and unfortunately) I’ve dealt with so much shit over the years, everything just makes me laugh now. And anger is a sign of weakness too. Some chicks dig it, usually the weak and pathetic drug addicts, but real women know better. And they know when you are using your anger to your advantage instead of destructively.
Funny story, the only reason I was on tinder at all was cause my ex from 8 months ago, who I’ve blocked from all contact, phone numbers, emails, social media, well she decided since she couldn’t contact me, she was going to just drop by unannounced. I put her in her place real quick (she cheated and is now currently on cocaine and other drugs and looks like she aged 10 years in 8 months) and sent her packing. But it was still a bummer to see and deal with it out of the blue. I was plenty happy just working on projects and reading and doing my own thing, til she stopped by. Had to make sure I still got it. 😂
Good for you! (Now about that smile and eyes... 😹💁)
I think half the flirting and online connections are just a desperate need to prove to themselves they are not unattractive or bad people after an ugly break up that shook them. Wonder if she's accidently done you a favor this time...
Learning to not care about what others say or think of you is a priceless life lesson- took me almost 50 years to get there, so props to finding your confidence much sooner.
It really is defanging to be open and first in acknowledging or laughing about your supposed weak points or common tropes too.
You're well onto the right path for personal contentment; the right others will find their way to you as you travel without hunting. It's true that once you stop actively looking they appear.
My go-to since I stopped GAF:
As a petite blonde with glasses and long hair to go with some lush bits guys fixate on while ignoring your personality or intelligence, my best showstopper joke is a blonde one-
First you ask if anyone would like to hear your joke? the way a 5 year old does it. Get their attention focused, posed primly on a seat with knees together and hands clasped in lap, looking around at audience with a big eyed sweet earnestness...
Take a deep breath like you are remembering an important speech, and ask "What's the difference between a blond and a Ferrarri?" using a soft little girl voice in a very teaching something important tone..... Look around expectantly, meet a few eyes while still looking very sweetly earnest....
No one- NO ONE- will have the nerve to respond.
Then break into a big happy smile, and say very loudly and brightly in a naive clueless tone "Not everyone's been IN a Ferrarri!" like you've just shared the secret to having endless chocolate chip cookies.
That I actually do work with little kids is the kicker; the sweet and kid friendly take is a habit that most don't get to see past on the job.
Many other blonde women laugh outloud after the dead silence, and most regular guys are choking to death trying to not make any sound laughing. The rare not blonde woman breaks into a huge admiring smile and looks me straight in the eye while doing so.
PC or "beta" males? Not blonde women? The shocked horror and disbelief and silence as they go rigid then look around at anyone laughing like they are pure scum to laugh AT ME is priceless lolol!
Then I drop the pose and voice, a mocking amused smile and eyes accompany a husky laugh, and I dryly say "So, do I win? Oh calm down, it's funny because it's mostly TRUE!"
Good way to swiftly weed out people I am newly around who are not worth the effort, and it can quickly determine which guys will be a friend who respects ME for me or a danger to avoid too. I'm a Gemini, I multitask with lots of words involved. 😉
Funny how your highest scores are things that can't be objectively measured 😏
Well I mean, none of them can be objectively measured. Even my zero lol. I honestly just made that chart based on my successes with a) just being there and being seen. 4-5 with a bad haircut 6-7 if I’m lookin fly. I had a chick in a car pull up to my truck and blow me a kiss with her boyfriend sitting in the passenger seat. He did not look happy. I blew a kiss back. But I’m not very photogenic so I look like a retarded kid in my tinder photos. Plus I never really let people take pictures of me anyways so I don’t have much to work with.
My highest scores were bedroom skills and convo and just last weekend my ex from 8 months ago who I’ve blocked just decided to stop by the house unannounced, while she had a boyfriend.... so she was super attracted to one of those two things. Lol also this is like the 4th time an ex has done something similar. So I figure I’m doing something right ¯_(ツ)_/¯ I do know my best success with women is getting them one on one and talking, even if it takes a bit longer, I can seduce most chicks with just my charming and witty conversation and stories. Doesn’t hurt I’m a good listener too and remember things so I can use what they say later in a convo as a joke or point out if they said something hypocritical. (This girl was for abortions but when I suggested adoption she said “what mother could give their child away?” And I was like “same question, but murder it with a vacuum”) she knew right away I put her into a position to think.
Anyways long and short of it is I know you were just making a joke lol but I did put some thought into my ratings. I’m no perfect 10 for sure, but I make up in other areas I lack. Like I work out a lot, but my muscles stay the same size. Once they find out I can lift them up against the wall and hold them without getting tired, that’s all it takes to bump my average up a few notches.
Also, I’m Italian and I love your username!
Thank you, I love your username as well. It's a good redpill.
If you're interested, I invented my username as a reference to Cesare Beccaria. He argued against gun control, and his writings were quoted by Thomas Jefferson and John Adams in the context of the Second Amendment.
Did you just assume that he wasn't going to be interested only because you're a male?
Heteronormativity REEEEE!
I figured. I was just fuckin with ya. I actually edited that last bit in cause I thought it’d be funny cause why not. I’m feeling full of myself today.