This is a serious post. I have been a long time lurker of T_D (since 2016). I have voted conservative since the day I turned 18 and have been employed since I was 16. 20 years later, everyone around me at work and in my personal life is a cucked liberal, brainwashed by leftist mass media. The only exception being my wife, who has also always been a hard worker and proudly conservative. My wife is not white. Aside from her, T_D has been the only other place I could turn to maintain sanity these past 4 years, and just lurking and reading posts/comments was enough to do that.
I’ve always been even handed towards people throughout my life regardless of their skin color and have always treated people equally. That is how my conservative parents were, and that’s how they raised me. My wife never, ever had an issue with me being white. But lately (starting less than a month ago) that’s changed, despite us being together for 10 years. She now tells me she hates the fact that I’m white. She used to believe all races contained racists, and now it’s just white people.
My wife watches the news (mass media) every day, and when I asked her tonight about the Nascar noose and what she thought of it, she hadn’t even heard it was a hoax (or at best a false claim). Remember, she watches the news everyday, including today. I tried explaining that the FBI investigation came up negative, didn’t want to hear it. Tried showing her the video of the garage tour of Talladega from 2017, showing the pull strings beside every door - didn’t want to look at it.
I am not asking for marital advice from you patriots, but I am curious if anyone out there in an interracial marriage/relationship is suddenly experiencing new tension in their relationship due to the mass media promoting and propagating racial tension. I don’t have anywhere else to turn.
Thanks for hearing me out. God bless you all and God bless America. Trump 2020.
Let your wife experience her emotions. That’s what wives like to do. If anything, you should engage her on the topic (without cucking, of course, she married a man for a reason), ask her all kinds of opinion questions, and explore the personal and communal feelings. She’ll enjoy being the “expert” for awhile, instead of having to listen to your endless opinions (c’mon, admit it)...
...and she’ll end up red-pilling herself. Meanwhile you can just enjoy talking about her favorite subject: how great she is for being her. And she is special, that’s why you married her!
And think of all the fun you’ll have slowly sneaking in those red-pill questions, as you look at other diverse opinions... Candace Owens, the disenchanted BLM volunteers, Kanye, those two twin guys with the big smiles, etc. What drives racism? Who sold the slaves in the first place? Why would BLM support the architects of systemic racism? Why do black ladies get so jelly of other ladies’ with white BFs? It all leads back to the fact that you two transcend petty race politics and dangerous hate and probably the world would be a better place if more people were like the two of you, right sweetie? etc...
Remember women’s moods are like the tides, constantly changing, never the same, but always returning to a similar point. Don’t get bogged down in a bad spot and just roll with the ebb and flow.
Whatever happens, you can guarantee it will die down after the election as the media groupthink sends out something new to dwell on.
Thanks this is really good advice that I needed to hear. I have never cucked to her and I do believe I’ve always had more of her respect because of it. That being said, I do admit when I’m wrong, but God as my witness I will die before ever thinking for a second I’m wrong about this.
Being calm, understanding, patient, and good-humored goes a long way with women. Guys can lose sight of that sometimes, we always want to be correct and helpful, when they just want someone who is pleasant to be around and available to yell at and get mad at and have dinner with and laugh at things.
Then again, they’ll drive ya nuts, too, and there’s just no fixin’ ‘em crazy.
Hey! I resemble that remark!