Learning not to hate men even before I got heavily into crossdressing. (Think Robert Bly and Iron John)
Even though I experimented with guys I prefer women. Marriage and children.
I used to lurk on a couple blogs by married women who lost their husbands when they went trans. The pain in those essays helped keep me grounded in who I needed to be.
Personally I realized that living inside my head that much was selfish. Even if there was a magic gender switch I'd still be an incomplete person. Now I want to be valuable to my community and have a big family.
How'd you escape?
A few things....
G-d
Learning not to hate men even before I got heavily into crossdressing. (Think Robert Bly and Iron John)
Even though I experimented with guys I prefer women. Marriage and children.
I used to lurk on a couple blogs by married women who lost their husbands when they went trans. The pain in those essays helped keep me grounded in who I needed to be.
Personally I realized that living inside my head that much was selfish. Even if there was a magic gender switch I'd still be an incomplete person. Now I want to be valuable to my community and have a big family.