Learning not to hate men even before I got heavily into crossdressing. (Think Robert Bly and Iron John)
Even though I experimented with guys I prefer women. Marriage and children.
I used to lurk on a couple blogs by married women who lost their husbands when they went trans. The pain in those essays helped keep me grounded in who I needed to be.
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Learning not to hate men even before I got heavily into crossdressing. (Think Robert Bly and Iron John)
Even though I experimented with guys I prefer women. Marriage and children.
I used to lurk on a couple blogs by married women who lost their husbands when they went trans. The pain in those essays helped keep me grounded in who I needed to be.