I don't think it's the anime's fault, I think the fandom is to blame. They're always the problem, and almost all fandoms are infested with SJW trash. I used to love searching through Tumblr for fanart and silly headcanons for the anime I watched, but in recent years the fandoms have been utter trash, claiming characters are gay or trans when they're not. They're insane and delusional. They've also become extremely political, inserting politics into everything.

It's best to watch anime by yourself or with your friends, don't bother seeking out and interacting with the fandoms. They're going to ruin everything for you. It's not worth it.