It really comes down to thinking if you are fortunate in this world. Everyone has their own advantages. Heck poverty and a having a tougher background itself is an advantage. You remind her that your job is to take care of her and your family the second is the community then the country. Any privilege you have is her privilege as well.
You bump into someone and you get called racist. You attack a white person and they respond, "oh these white people so racist."
As a black American, this woman and husband showed 0 racist behavior.
this educational video explains it
Holy shit how have I never seen that
Sounds like you need a divorce before things get out of hand.
She's too far gone, man.
Let it go.
You need to workout and hold frame. She is messing with you.
The best day in my life was the day I learned of and how to handle shit tests from women.
Old Reddit was good. New rEdit can fuck off.
It really comes down to thinking if you are fortunate in this world. Everyone has their own advantages. Heck poverty and a having a tougher background itself is an advantage. You remind her that your job is to take care of her and your family the second is the community then the country. Any privilege you have is her privilege as well.