i made a post about this a while ago so ill just copy paste it
a lot of people will blame black men for stepping out on their children in such huge numbers that you have such a crisis among black americans with fatherless homes, but the light needs to be shined on the true 800 pound gorilla in the room
men behave as they need to in order to have sex with women. young black women consistently have sex with thugs, gangbangers, and drug dealers. it's no surprise those are the lads stepping out when she gets knocked up, but she never cared in the first place because now she gets access to all kinds of government cheese and is getting paid by Uncle Sucker to exist. if a black man wants to have sex with a black woman in his community, what else is he supposed to do? he will be punished for doing everything right, and he will be richly rewarded for leading an irresponsible life that will send him to an early grave.
of course the upstanding young black men who do everything right tend to gravitate towards non-black women when they enter into a committed relationship. the problem with the black community, every single problem they have, starts with the behavior of young black women. the future is in their hands but for 50 years they've been dropping it on the floor so they could instead fill their hands with drug dealer dick
Take it from Pac. We would never know who Tupac Shakur was if he didn't have problems with getting women when he was younger, but the man died when he was 25. If he hadn't gone down the path of gangsta rap and beefin with other rappers he'd be just 49 years old today. He could be a family man looking forward to having some grandchildren soon while working towards retirement. Instead after being cremated his ashes were mixed with marijuana and literally smoked by some of his friends. Who wants to go out like that?
The black community is never going to improve as long as young women continue to want thugs, since any young man who wants to have sex with a black woman has no other choice than to become a thug.
"because now she gets access to all kinds of government cheese and is getting paid by Uncle Sucker to exist"
This transcends race, and is truly the root of the issue. When the government started paying women to avoid marriage, things started to fall apart. I know two couple who never married because they would have had less money. Both are white.
I know, but that post was specifically from a thread about fatherlessness in black america, still very applicable to fatherlessness at large since as i alluded to in the post the problem really stems from the sexual desires of women and the inability for fathers to control who their daughters associate with like we had in the past
even within living memory for some folks there was a time where if you didnt have a father's permission to associate with his daughter he'd either kick the living shit out of you or run you out of town. back when shotgun weddings had a legitimate shotgun involved.
Not just avoid, but encouraged and rewarded to stab their men in the back for decades now. Quick! Pretend to be surprised at the absolute state of families and children these days
Without long-term pair bonding, an emotional connection/attachment to family, and the possibility of benefiting one's children and grand-children across generations, men have no real incentive to be "good." They may be good for a while on instinct but it has to be rewarded or they'll turn bad out of spite.
To be perfectly honest, this type of thinking is how feminists WANT you to think. What men, not just black men, need to work on IS THEIR PURPOSE. Women and a family should be a byproduct of a man's success.
The issue with society is it puts "Lots of Pussy" as the GOAL of man, instead of their goal being accumulating mass amounts of wealth or owning a business etc.
Here's something that pisses women off, but is true: Women follow a Man's lead. If a Man is with a woman long enough, he can shape that woman into what he wants. However, it's a long process and you need to weed through a lot of them.
The most dangerous think to Women and Feminists is a man having power over his own life and having OPTIONS. If you covertly tell a woman you're not just seeing her when you date, she becomes instantly drawn to you more.
Men need to stop chasing pussy. If you want more info, read "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi
Society also says "lots of male attention (and frequently dick)" is the goal of women. Most women today have little to no standards, class, or self respect and will give it up for almost any guy that pays attention to them for one night.
A woman's goal should be finding a healthy and financially stable man to start a family with. Instead we're taught it's better to look like a whore on the internet for attention or to sell some product, or fuck whoever you want all day everyday because even if you get knocked up by some dude you barely even know, the government will be there for you. Or, get on birth control and get a career and you can waste your days fucking and working and consuming until your looks have dried up and you're old and alone with nothing to show for it.
The root of the problem for everyone seems to be the blind acceptance of the over sexualization of our society.
I'm sorry, but I have to completely disagree and will go as far to say that's how an incel thinks: "Women should be THIS way".
Here's the thing, you can't change that. A woman will do what she wants. Can we over time change that for next generations to come? Absolutely. But at this time, they are stuck in their ways. What we as men need to do is pick the woman WE want, and then through our power, shape them in our image. If she acts out, drop her. And for the love of god, dont have kids until you KNOW she will behave.
This rings so true. I went to one of the three military academies. Served with a lot of successful squared away black men. Most of them married white women.
i made a post about this a while ago so ill just copy paste it
a lot of people will blame black men for stepping out on their children in such huge numbers that you have such a crisis among black americans with fatherless homes, but the light needs to be shined on the true 800 pound gorilla in the room
men behave as they need to in order to have sex with women. young black women consistently have sex with thugs, gangbangers, and drug dealers. it's no surprise those are the lads stepping out when she gets knocked up, but she never cared in the first place because now she gets access to all kinds of government cheese and is getting paid by Uncle Sucker to exist. if a black man wants to have sex with a black woman in his community, what else is he supposed to do? he will be punished for doing everything right, and he will be richly rewarded for leading an irresponsible life that will send him to an early grave.
of course the upstanding young black men who do everything right tend to gravitate towards non-black women when they enter into a committed relationship. the problem with the black community, every single problem they have, starts with the behavior of young black women. the future is in their hands but for 50 years they've been dropping it on the floor so they could instead fill their hands with drug dealer dick
Take it from Pac. We would never know who Tupac Shakur was if he didn't have problems with getting women when he was younger, but the man died when he was 25. If he hadn't gone down the path of gangsta rap and beefin with other rappers he'd be just 49 years old today. He could be a family man looking forward to having some grandchildren soon while working towards retirement. Instead after being cremated his ashes were mixed with marijuana and literally smoked by some of his friends. Who wants to go out like that?
The black community is never going to improve as long as young women continue to want thugs, since any young man who wants to have sex with a black woman has no other choice than to become a thug.
"because now she gets access to all kinds of government cheese and is getting paid by Uncle Sucker to exist"
This transcends race, and is truly the root of the issue. When the government started paying women to avoid marriage, things started to fall apart. I know two couple who never married because they would have had less money. Both are white.
I know, but that post was specifically from a thread about fatherlessness in black america, still very applicable to fatherlessness at large since as i alluded to in the post the problem really stems from the sexual desires of women and the inability for fathers to control who their daughters associate with like we had in the past
even within living memory for some folks there was a time where if you didnt have a father's permission to associate with his daughter he'd either kick the living shit out of you or run you out of town. back when shotgun weddings had a legitimate shotgun involved.
I was going by the title, which does not mention race:
" Absent Fathers And Broken Families Are The Root Cause Of All Social Problems In America… But Nobody Wants To Talk About “That.”
i meant the post that i copy pasted from another thread, that thread was specifically about fatherlessness in black america
i thought it was applicable to this thread also which is why i copy pasted it here
sorry for the misunderstanding
Not just avoid, but encouraged and rewarded to stab their men in the back for decades now. Quick! Pretend to be surprised at the absolute state of families and children these days
Without long-term pair bonding, an emotional connection/attachment to family, and the possibility of benefiting one's children and grand-children across generations, men have no real incentive to be "good." They may be good for a while on instinct but it has to be rewarded or they'll turn bad out of spite.
To be perfectly honest, this type of thinking is how feminists WANT you to think. What men, not just black men, need to work on IS THEIR PURPOSE. Women and a family should be a byproduct of a man's success.
The issue with society is it puts "Lots of Pussy" as the GOAL of man, instead of their goal being accumulating mass amounts of wealth or owning a business etc.
Here's something that pisses women off, but is true: Women follow a Man's lead. If a Man is with a woman long enough, he can shape that woman into what he wants. However, it's a long process and you need to weed through a lot of them.
The most dangerous think to Women and Feminists is a man having power over his own life and having OPTIONS. If you covertly tell a woman you're not just seeing her when you date, she becomes instantly drawn to you more.
Men need to stop chasing pussy. If you want more info, read "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi
Society also says "lots of male attention (and frequently dick)" is the goal of women. Most women today have little to no standards, class, or self respect and will give it up for almost any guy that pays attention to them for one night.
A woman's goal should be finding a healthy and financially stable man to start a family with. Instead we're taught it's better to look like a whore on the internet for attention or to sell some product, or fuck whoever you want all day everyday because even if you get knocked up by some dude you barely even know, the government will be there for you. Or, get on birth control and get a career and you can waste your days fucking and working and consuming until your looks have dried up and you're old and alone with nothing to show for it.
The root of the problem for everyone seems to be the blind acceptance of the over sexualization of our society.
I'm sorry, but I have to completely disagree and will go as far to say that's how an incel thinks: "Women should be THIS way".
Here's the thing, you can't change that. A woman will do what she wants. Can we over time change that for next generations to come? Absolutely. But at this time, they are stuck in their ways. What we as men need to do is pick the woman WE want, and then through our power, shape them in our image. If she acts out, drop her. And for the love of god, dont have kids until you KNOW she will behave.
This rings so true. I went to one of the three military academies. Served with a lot of successful squared away black men. Most of them married white women.