Yup! Alienated NJ father here. Quick story: married 13 years when wife said she wanted a divorce. We had joint custody of the kids for five years. During the 2007-2008 economic crash my income dropped by 80%. I went to court for temporary relief, I was bringing home no paycheck. Ex wife got pissed off started filing restraining orders against me, whenever I would show up at my kids soccer and lacrosse games. Was thrown into prison A few times because I was behind on child support and alimony. She told me she didn’t want me to see the kids and the court willingly made it impossible for me to see my kids if I did not want to go to jail. It’s been eight years since I have had meaningful contact with son and daughter. I die a little each day I don’t hear from them. The family courts in NJ are controlled by the democrats and if your ex wants you out of your kids lives she can do it. The family courts are the 10th circle of hell and are destroying fathers relationships with their children.
Thanks fellow pede! It’s sucks big time but I try to keep going. I just want my fellow jersey pedes to know the family courts are a racket controlled by the lawyers. A great group of fathers who have been through the system, is Fathers and Childrens Equality(FACE). When I ran out of money and went Pro Bono, FACE helped me navigate the system..
No fault divorce, family courts biased against fathers, and the creation of the welfare state were all designed to create more broken families.
The entire goal was to replace the family with the state. And they're doing quite well.
Yup! Alienated NJ father here. Quick story: married 13 years when wife said she wanted a divorce. We had joint custody of the kids for five years. During the 2007-2008 economic crash my income dropped by 80%. I went to court for temporary relief, I was bringing home no paycheck. Ex wife got pissed off started filing restraining orders against me, whenever I would show up at my kids soccer and lacrosse games. Was thrown into prison A few times because I was behind on child support and alimony. She told me she didn’t want me to see the kids and the court willingly made it impossible for me to see my kids if I did not want to go to jail. It’s been eight years since I have had meaningful contact with son and daughter. I die a little each day I don’t hear from them. The family courts in NJ are controlled by the democrats and if your ex wants you out of your kids lives she can do it. The family courts are the 10th circle of hell and are destroying fathers relationships with their children.
I'm sorry Dad-Pede.
Thanks fellow pede! It’s sucks big time but I try to keep going. I just want my fellow jersey pedes to know the family courts are a racket controlled by the lawyers. A great group of fathers who have been through the system, is Fathers and Childrens Equality(FACE). When I ran out of money and went Pro Bono, FACE helped me navigate the system..
Keep the faith.
Also Dwight Howard. And Shawn Kemp.
And Cromartie
And Cromartie