I just see no personal value in it, and only see the drudgery of utter dependence
If that's actually how you think then just don't have kids. You'd probably end up being an absentee parent, either emotionally or mentally, and end up doing all kinds of harm.
Some people just aren't cut out to be parents, it sucks but at least you and your girlfriend are on the same page
If that's actually how you think then just don't have kids. You'd probably end up being an absentee parent, either emotionally or mentally, and end up doing all kinds of harm.
Some people just aren't cut out to be parents, it sucks but at least you and your girlfriend are on the same page
Thanks for the honesty :)